Just Want Something Real

Peter (42) 

Male / Single / ID: 2306255
Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 37
For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Education: Masters Degree
Have children: No
Drink: Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke
Religion: Christian
Occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service


I'm a good, decent and kind man looking for someone to start a life with. I work in Chicago, and have lots of friends, but finally realize that I want to meet someone who can share the good and bad in life with. I want children and a family. I want a partner, a lover and a friend. I am easy to talk ...read more >>

I'm a good, decent and kind man looking for someone to start a life with. I work in Chicago, and have lots of friends, but finally realize that I want to meet someone who can share the good and bad in life with. I want children and a family. I want a partner, a lover and a friend. I am easy to talk to, if you look at the gee male. I am hexhand, there I like to write, and have had my writing published. Someday, I hope to write full time, but I still work full time and write part time. This doesn't mean that my nose is always on a book. I live by a great big lake, and spend most of my Summer and Spring somewhere on or in the lake. :) I am not perfect-looking, but think I am attractive because of my approach to life: I treat all people as I find them. If they are jerks, I ignore them. If they are intelligent, have emotional and intellectual depth to them, I hang around with them. My friends are good, honest, and usually very talented people. I am a 'man' and not a 'guy'. A guy thinks with the Little Head (below the belt), while a 'man' makes his decisions with the Big Head (above the neck). This doesn't mean that I don't get urges; it means that I know how to address them appropriately and respectfully. My pleasure is not worth someone else's pain I am generous, kind and sometimes a big kid at heart. I like animals and little kids. I deeply believe in family and am interested in starting one with someone I meet here, kids being an eventuality, not a possibility. If you do not want kids, I am not the man for you. I am a one-woman man; its just too exhausting to give my love and attention to more than one woman. If I am with you, then you get all of my attention, but I am not clingy or jealous. Jealousy is for people who don't like themselves enough to trust that their partner loves them for the right reasons.

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About Peter

He's Looking For

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Gender: Male Female
Age: 42 23 - 37
Lives in: Chicago, Illinois, United States Any
Relocate: Not willing to relocate Willing to relocate to another country
Appearance 
Hair color: Brown Any
Hair length: Short Any
Hair type: Straight Any
Eye color: Green Any
Eye wear: None Any
Height: 5'10" (178 cm) 4'7" (140 cm) - 6'1" (186 cm)
Weight: 88 kg (194 lb) Any
Body style: Average Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic
Ethnicity: Caucasian (White) Any
Facial hair: Clean Shaven N/A
Best feature: My Smile Any
Body art: None Any
Appearance: Attractive Very attractive, Attractive, Average
Lifestyle 
Drink: Occasionally drink Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke: Don't smoke Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status: Single Any
Have children: No Any
Number of children: N/A Any
Oldest child: N/A Any
Youngest child: N/A Any
Want (more) children: Yes Any
Have pets: No Pets Any
Occupation: Political / Govt / Civil Service Any
Employment status: Full Time Any
Income: Prefer not to say Any
Home type: Condominium Any
Living situation: Live Alone Any
Background / Cultural Values 
Nationality: United States Any
Education: Masters Degree Any
Languages spoken: English Any
English ability: Fluent Any
Indonesian ability: Some Any
Religion: Christian Any
Chinese sign: Don't Know Any
Star sign: Libra Any
Hobbies & Interests
Entertainment: Other, Ballet, Beach / Parks, Board / Card Games, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Comedy Clubs, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Education, Family, Home Improvement, Investing / Finance, Library, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Writing
Food: American, French, Middle Eastern, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Indian, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Japanese / Sushi, Jewish / Kosher, Thai, Korean, Vietnamese
Music: Other, Alternative, Dance / Techno, Jazz / Blues, Metal, New Age, Pop, Reggae, Rock, World
Sport: Archery, Baseball / Softball, Biking, Cricket, Cycling, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Hang Gliding / Paragliding, Martial Arts, Rugby, Soccer, Surfing, Swimming, Tennis / Badminton, Walking, Yoga / Pilates

I find that the sexiest part of a woman is between her ears - her intellect, wit and wisdom. Make me laugh, and you will have my heart. Be kind, and you will own it. I don't mind if you have kids (I do not have any of my own). Understand that I want our own - though I am not in a hurry to have th...read more >>

I find that the sexiest part of a woman is between her ears - her intellect, wit and wisdom. Make me laugh, and you will have my heart. Be kind, and you will own it. I don't mind if you have kids (I do not have any of my own). Understand that I want our own - though I am not in a hurry to have them. :) You score extra points with me if you really know your music or authors. If you are nerdy or a geek, I will be your lust-puppet. :) Love me for who I am, and I will love and defend you forever. That is a promise.

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