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Hugh
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65 Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia

Male / Divorced / ID: 2432448

Seeking Female 36 - 55 living in Indonesia For: Romance / Dating, Marriage

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Quick Overview

Hugh

He's Looking For

Education:

Bachelors Degree
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Yes - don't live at home, No

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Sales / Marketing
Any

Member Overview

I grew up in New Zealand but have spent most of my life in Indonesia as a teacher and see myself as a lifelong learner-I learn from whoever I'm with and whatever situation I'm in. I'm easy going and see anyone I am with as worthy of my time and respect. I like to read, write, draw and paint, explore...
I grew up in New Zealand but have spent most of my life in Indonesia as a teacher and see myself as a lifelong learner-I learn from whoever I'm with and whatever situation I'm in. I'm easy going and see anyone I am with as worthy of my time and respect. I like to read, write, draw and paint, explore new things in all sorts of places including nature, the arts scene, dining out sometimes but most importantly sharing my time and love with people who I feel close to, care for me and who I can care for. I'm a dreamer and asker of "why not?" rather than asking "why are things the way they are?".
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Seeking

I'm open to all opportunities that come along as long as mutual respect, honesty and a strong desire to love, care and serve the other person drives the relationship. I think learning about another person is a wonderful adventure that can open up the prospect of lifelong happiness. I suppose a key f...
I'm open to all opportunities that come along as long as mutual respect, honesty and a strong desire to love, care and serve the other person drives the relationship. I think learning about another person is a wonderful adventure that can open up the prospect of lifelong happiness. I suppose a key feature of a loving relationship is accepting the other as they are and not trying to mold them into what we want them to be. The saying "Remember, perfect love is not loving a perfect person but learning to love an imperfect person, perfectly" captures that quality.
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More About Me

Hugh

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Verified
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
Verified
65
36 - 55
Lives in:
Jakarta, Jakarta Raya, Indonesia
Indonesia
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Grey / White
Any
Hair length:
Medium
Any
Hair type:
Wavy
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
5'10" (178 cm)
Any
Weight:
86 kg (189 lb)
Any
Body style:
Few Extra Pounds
Any
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Facial hair:
Mustache
N/A
Best feature:
My Personality
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Average
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Single, Separated, Divorced, Widowed
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Yes - don't live at home, No
Number of children:
4
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
Older than 18
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
Any
Employment status:
Other
Any
Income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live Alone
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
Verified
New Zealand
Any
Education:
Bachelors Degree
High School, Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Indonesian ability:
Good
Any
Religion:
Christian
Any
Chinese sign:
Don't Know
Any
Star sign:
Virgo
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Beach / Parks, Concerts / Live Music, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dancing, Dining Out, Education, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, News / Politics, Philosophy / Spirituality, Reading, Social Causes / Activism, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, Writing

Food:

Middle Eastern, Greek, Indian, Italian, Thai, Vegetarian / Organic, Mediterranean, Mexican

Music:

Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Pop, World

Sport:

Golf, Rugby, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Table Tennis, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel and American Grafitti

Favorite Book:

The Element by Sir Ken Robinson

Favorite Food:

A lot of types-Indonesian, Chinese, Thai, Arabic, Turkish, Italian, as long as they are heavy on vegetables. I'm trying to be vegetarian!!

Favorite Music:

Folk music, R and B, soft rock, classic hits, Judy Collins, anything soft and emotional

Dress Style:

I dress for myself but am aware of others expectations.

Humor:

Well developed and wicked at times

Hobbies & Interests:

Writing, art (both doing it and seeing it), travel, meeting people, following current events, dreaming of possibilities and learning from life.

Travelled:

Too many places to name. In both my physical traveling and my orientation, I think I am a citizen of the world, I haven't been to South America so would like to do that plus visit areas of Indonesia and even my homeland that I've never been to. The world is a huge, amazing and wonderful place to explore.

Cultural Adaption:

Very. I have lived in Indonesia more than half my life so know Indonesian culture and people well. I have loved living here and Indonesian people have been a big part of that experience.

Romance:

At a beachside cottage alone with someone I felt so comfortable with that we had no inhibitions or things we were unafraid to share. We would cook our own food, take walks along the beach, fly kites on a breezy afternoon, light a bonfire on the beach at night, watch stars, listen to soft romantic music, dance in each others arms, whisper to each other, laugh a lot, stay up and wake up late. Mmmm, what else? Oh yes, maybe some passionate lovemaking too!!!!!

Personality:

Open, friendly, creative, intellectually curious, keen to learn new things, keen to learn from others.

My Perfect Match is:

Someone who accepted me as I am, who is open and tolerant yet is their own person. Someone who can laugh and share in my good times with happiness and joy just as I will be able to do with her. Someone who also hurts when I hurt and is there for me when I need love and care.

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