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Tom
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

49 Anchorage, Alaska, United States

Male / Single / ID: 3273413

Seeking Female 18 - 40 For: Friendship, Romance / Dating, Long Term Relationship

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Tom

He's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Any

Have children:

Yes - don't live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Occasionally smoke
Any

Religion:

Christian
Any

Occupation:

Self Employed
Any

Member Overview

Update: I came here and said what I said because honestly, if you read everything I wrote and you are good with that on principle, and I 'interested' you, or you just know I will be cool with you (you know who you are), then to me that's most of the way there, cuz I know you'll like me when you mee...
Update: I came here and said what I said because honestly, if you read everything I wrote and you are good with that on principle, and I 'interested' you, or you just know I will be cool with you (you know who you are), then to me that's most of the way there, cuz I know you'll like me when you meet me, that's the easy part ;) The problem is I know some of these accounts are fake, just because of the timing... okay fine everybody's got to make a buck, but it leaves me very skeptical about everything. I upgraded to 'gold' to talk to some of you and it wants me to do a marriage form disclosure just to read the email. Look I've never even online dated here, never needed to... still don't, the appeal was putting it all out there up front, and only dealing with girls that sounded good to. I'm down with disclosing everything about myself, but I have enter details about my kids, which I'm not going to do on a dating site. I'm really sick of fakes, and obviously so are some of you. I really wanted to talk to those sweet girls that liked what wrote me, if they were real. My gym is called Adaptfit in Soldotna, check it out and let know what you think ;) -- Thanks for checking me out... Why am 'I' on this site? Well, (this will save many of you some trouble, because I'm going to be honest) As pretty as they are, American women have just become flat out unmarriageable. If it's a global thing or not I don't know... The problem I've concluded, after bringing my considerable intellectual resources to bear on this, is attitude. I'm a very old fashioned, alpha type of a man, something for which I am grateful, but American women have been taught that's bad, so they want these feminized males this has produced. I'm trying this out, because I'm a man, and I want a woman that likes me being a man, and she likes being a woman, acts feminine, does cute girly things, smells good, looks pretty, all that. My kids don't live with me, I'm self employed, own a gym in a small town. I workout, go shooting and camping when I can. Relationships are the most important to me at this point in my life. I want the right one. The most important thing to me is 'loyalty' - and all that implies. I'm not looking for a Russian, or a Ukrainian, or an American, I'm looking for someone who wants to identify as 'mine'. Other details include but aren't limited to, I usually make it a point to smell good, I like to touch... all the time, cooking is a biggie, I'm very into my girl, making sure she's happy, feeling good... all that. I'm fiercely loyal, naturally I expect the same in speech and in actions, which is why honesty has to be total between us. As far as age difference, don't worry, I've been told by more than one very reliable source that I'm very immature, so no worries ;) I'm simple guy, I want simple things. I own a gym in Soldotna Alaska where I work as a coach/trainer. I make enough to live how I want, I value time-freedom far more than money.
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Seeking

Honesty and loyalty. I want a partner (more than one considered on a case by case basis ;) a best friend, an ally, a lover... the whole nine yards. But that's a lot of pressure right? Not if the other person feels the exact same way, it's natural, and effortless for two people that exist to stand...
Honesty and loyalty. I want a partner (more than one considered on a case by case basis ;) a best friend, an ally, a lover... the whole nine yards. But that's a lot of pressure right? Not if the other person feels the exact same way, it's natural, and effortless for two people that exist to stand beside one another.
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More About Me

Tom

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
49
18 - 40
Lives in:
Anchorage, Alaska, United States
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Relocate:
Willing to relocate within my country
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Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
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Eye color:
Hazel
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Height:
5'8" (173 cm)
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Weight:
81 kg (178 lb)
No Answer - 59 kg (130 lb)
Body style:
Athletic
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Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
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Body art:
None
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Appearance:
Very attractive
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Occasionally smoke
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Marital Status:
Single
Any
Have children:
Yes - don't live at home
Any
Number of children:
4
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
8
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
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Have pets:
No Pets
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Occupation:
Self Employed
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Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Annual income:
Prefer not to say
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Living situation:
Live Alone
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
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Education:
Vocational College
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Languages spoken:
English
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English ability:
Fluent
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Indonesian ability:
None
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Religion:
Christian
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Chinese sign:
Don't Know
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Star sign:
Leo
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Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Gardening / Landscaping, News / Politics, Writing

Food:

American, Barbecue, Cajun / Southern, Mediterranean, Mexican

Music:

Other

Sport:

Boxing, Fishing, Gym / Weight Training, Hiking, Hunting / Shooting

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

I don't know I have a lot, I guess Bourne Identity, A Good Year, Gladiator, Spanglish

Favorite Food:

home cookin'

Favorite Music:

All kinds

Dress Style:

casual

Humor:

very well developed ;)

Hobbies & Interests:

working out, shooting, gardening, writing, movies

Travelled:

I've been all over

Cultural Adaption:

I'm looking here because women in my culture are selfish and entitled... I'm sure it's the same everywhere, but eastern women at least still seem to respect manhood, though maybe I'm wrong?

Romance:

Romantic weekend? In bed, with nothing else to do... all supplies collected ahead of time so there is no leaving required the whole time.

Personality:

an acquired taste...

My Perfect Match is:

That would be the girl that just wants me to call her 'baby'. She's happiest when she's taking care of me, because I take care of her.

She smart and tough, accept when she's with me, then she's my baby, and likes it that way. She takes pride in her home and her family, and likes to spend time there, reading, cooking, playing, and of course... she really likes my touch.

She's loyal and honest above all, she doesn't play games or look for ways to increase her position through other relationships. She's not into money for the sake of it, if she has what she needs, she's happy.

She runs on my attention, not everyone else's. This isn't something she 'makes herself' do... she is already like that, or it won't last.

She's smart because she gets my jokes, and she's sassy because she makes some of her own. We are a team in the heart, but it's my train, and she's happy to on it.

I know it's not likely I'll find such a girl, but just in case you are out there and happen to read this... I'm here, and waiting for you to know the voice of your husband when he calls you ;)

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