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Thomas
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53 Stamford, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom

Male / Divorced / ID: 3365662

Seeking Female 21 - 39 For: Romance / Dating

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Overview

Thomas

He's Looking For

Education:

Vocational College
Any

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

No Answer
Any

Occupation:

Finance / Banking / Real Estate
Any

Member Overview

Tom from UK looking new start and looking for new home and new life for me and my little girl. I can seem shy at first but I open up once I feel the sincerity in a girl. I am seeking the sincere type not gold diggers as already encountered many of them here in this site. We could meet if we think...
Tom from UK looking new start and looking for new home and new life for me and my little girl. I can seem shy at first but I open up once I feel the sincerity in a girl. I am seeking the sincere type not gold diggers as already encountered many of them here in this site. We could meet if we think if the feeling was mutual but let me say this, "No Photo No Reply" and if you are lazy just looking for easy life then please pass by my profile as I am intelligent not stupid and no ones bank manager. Most in this site cannot maintain interest after exchanging just 3 or 4 messages so I ask you to please read my entire profile before deciding if you feel we might be compatible and only write to me if you can show a recent photograph of yourself and you are attractive in both appearance and personality and capable of writing long messages, not just 2 or 3 words.. I hope you are here for long term love not short term gain. Please!!!! "DO NOT" ask for money because that is a real turn off for us foreign men and I will say NO every time and you do not fit my criteria already. I seek slim or petite average size girl below age 36 and 100% genuine and sincere in a relationship and I must admit I can be quite naughty if in a strong relationship and know how to blow your beautiful mind in more ways than one but that is private between the 2 of us "smile" She should be a self respecting girl who will never ask for money from a man she hasn't met. One of my pictures here was taken in USA when my hair was Black but it is very grey since experiencing so much tragedy in my life. If I believe you are the one I am searching for then I would consider meeting. I prefer to judge a girl by her sincerity, honesty and self respect rather than where she comes from or what she owns but I do not want a lazy girl who is just out for an easy life of leisure unless you have your own income. I stayed in Makati for 6 months in 2008 and again 2013 at one of my Raffles Apartments which I sold in Oct 2013. I have been married to a filipino and now separated because she was lazy and none understanding person who made my life much harder than it had been before I met her and now seeking a girl who has a clean attractive appearance and likes to keep a clean and tidy home. I had a big motorcycle smash as a teenager which caused many operations over the years but I am still proud about my appearance and told many times I am a good looking man. I like long messages so please feel free to write more than 3 words, the more the better, "Smile. I would like to take a year out from UK and plan to move to Cebu some time in late 2016 and will be with my little girl Myleene aged 6 and was thinking to move in or near Cebu City. and perhaps look to open a nice coffee shop together. I like dining out and like Ayala Mall especially the Canvas Australian restaurant where I have dined many times. Everyone is beautiful in their own right but we all have our own taste and idea of what we find attractive so I will reply to pretty or attractive members who are slim or petite in body but sorry I am not into big large girls. Your height doesn't matter as I like both short or tall. Age is not important as much as maturity and attitude. I am father of beautiful little girl who is 6 now. Her mother is half Filipino but we did not get along because I am very clean and tidy in the home but my wife was not so we separate but she still see my daughter every month. . I have blue eyes of English/Irish blood.Good moral standards + high respect..you can choose younger guys but young guys think with their dick, not with their brains and most young guys cannot offer a girl stability with security but I am a man who can offer both as long as you seek love more than material gain. A mature man can offer more stability and will appreciate having a beautiful younger wife.where as young guys will use a girl for sex until the next girl catch his eye and then he will perhaps leave you pregnant with a bigger struggle in life all alone as a single Mom. I know how to laugh and I know how to cry, I know how to live and I am sure when the day comes I will know how to die. I have so much to offer a really sincere decent girl but I have experienced much pain and sadness in my life. First let me say that those of you who decide not to write to me after reading my profile "it is not a Problem" good luck to you because I am a very special man and deserve a very special girl. I don`t want to buy your love so please do not offer your body and do not allow anyone to buy your love as it will only end in heart break and tears, believe me. Do not interpret what I write as someone feeling sorry for himself because I am a very strong willed man. I love a girl who likes to hold hands in public, and a girl who loves the cinema and a Romantic dinner out. I have an excellent financial future so the opportunity you may have missed by not reading fully my informative long profile may pass you by. I am writing a book about my very unusual life and ask that you try understanding my profile. Respect me for being open and honest to you just as I will respect you. I seek a girl who is open, honest, caring, loving, intelligent, sensitive and passionate with the man she loves. Many of the girls who appear very attractive on the outside I have discovered many can be so ugly on the inside. I seek partner who cares about herself with good character/personality as I hate paranoid selfish and greedy attitudes. To those genuine and sincere loving girls who read my long profile, if you like what you see then I wait your messages and will reply to you if you fulfil the description I am looking for. I am not here for silly games so please do not offer sex as I will have to delete you because although I love to be adventurous and explore everything! I also believe it is a very private and personal activity that should be enjoyed within a deeply loving relationship. I love to please my girl and make it my priority and since my cancer destroy much of my sex life I joke to my doctor if he can add extra 6 inches on my tongue!! Just kidding. I only reply to those who satisfy my criteria of small or tall, slim/petite but most importantly not large built woman over 60 kilo. Please respect my criteria and do not be offended if I do not reply but to be honest I receive messages every day but only reply to those I think have initial chance of having something in common with me. I seek girl with a sincere heart. I am a Platinum member here so you can write to me for free as many times as you like and I will reply if u fit my personal preferences. I have been told that I am a very nice looking man with sexy blue eyes and therefore I prefer my girl to be nice appearance as I am never afraid for my girl to attract admirers as being looked at and admired is a girls right so I will never be angry jealous but maybe just a little horny jealous "Smile.. More important she is sincere from the heart and I like homely type of person who likes to be adventurous with an open mind not afraid to try new things as long as it is agreed as if you read all my profile you will understand it is not about me being naughty or rude, but because of what happen me with the prostate cancer I have to be open minded with my girl and allow the freedom to choose her own pleasures. It is better to give your girl freedom rather than discover her trying to hide it behind your back."Smile. Be sincere and know what u are looking for as I believe strongly in friendship first. I live in a comfortable home and I want to find a girl who would be proud to also live in a comfortable home. What I write here is not intended to sound boastful, I just wish to describe who I am and why I am here and what I am seeking in a girl. I am a very sentimental and loving full of compassion for the less fortunate but I am also no fool with money and cannot be tricked by scammers. My purpose for being in this site is sincere in looking for attractive or pretty partner who can be Petite or slim with an open mind as although I am very decent and show total respect to a girl, I am also honest enough to admit to having a naughty side to my character just as every man has but they hide it from u. I seek genuine friendship at first but hope it will lead to a deep and satisfying relationship. I want to be honest and tell you I live with much pain in my life from my motorcycle accident as a teenager but I was born a natural fighter and do not seek sympathy. I have just recently had shoulder surgery in December 2014 but the pain was horrendous and it has permanently damaged my right shoulder socket due to an infection that's why I am taking legal action against both the hospital and the surgeon. I am a successful property investor and own several houses and other property in UK and I have a beautiful villa with swimming pool on the sunny Island of Cyprus and now I would like to find a nice place in Cebu Philippines. I also like watching formula 1 racing and I support Lewis Hamilton. If u are interested in my profile be sincere and send me a real message, not just 3 words I like an adventurous girl and believe you should allow your girl freedom to enjoy and try new things as long as she knows where her heart belongs. I like to look good and take care my appearance and I always help my girl to look and dress nice to. You can see my pics here but my hair was jet black before and now since many tragedy it is silver/black. I like formula 1 motor racing and love to take my girl to the theatre to see beautiful shows and musicals in London. I know how to treat a girl and always had attractive girlfriend in the past. I am interested in a girl who would like to meet me once we feel the chemistry. I dislike designer label girls as I find them shallow, false and pretentious when so many are starving in their own country designer handbags don't impress me. If you are a deeply loving and attractive girl them message me. Please respect the type of person I am seeking and I am not interested in girls offering to show their body for money as my standards and self respect are very high so do not contact me if you are a cheap scammer. A girl needs self respect and know how to respect others I dislike profiles of girls showing their tongue`s out because you look like you have mental problems. Do not sell your body to cheap and desperate guys who have no respect because once they have used and abused you they will be gone. I am no angel and I admit to having a very naughty side to my character and even joke with my doctor to add 6 inches on my tongue to make up for the lost inches since the cancer that reduce the size of my???? but I know where and when and these things are only for the privacy of your own comfortable surroundings. I have suffered much tragedy in my life starting with a serious motorcycle accident when I was just 16 years old. I was hit by a drink driver and was almost killed. I had 11 months in hospital with operations but it has not stopped me from achieving much in life because I am a born fighter and I still know how to laugh and make others laugh to. In September 1987 when I was locking up my business I was attacked by  men who kicked me to the ground breaking my leg but I still fight on. The next tragedy happened whilst I was on my way home from the airport in UK. I was driving and I passed a massive accident and found it was my most loved treasued little brother "Terry" who had just been killed on his motorcycle. I was devastated because his death lead to my Mum dying as she suffered high blood pressure after Terry was killed and she died from massive stroke. My heart was broken once again as my mum was the best mum in the world who took great care of me following my smash years earlier and now she was gone and I felt so lonely. I must have cried an ocean of tears and even now there are days that I feel choked with the memories but I carry on for the sake of my little girl. I have become far more sentimental and emotional since losing Terry and Mum and I even have tears whenever I see people suffering in this world no matter what the reason may be. I had another terrible event in 2009 when my little girl was born 09/09/09 and the next day I was told I had prostate cancer which devastated me as I did not know if I would live to see my beautiful little girl grow up with her daddy but I choose radical surgery to remove my prostate and it seems to have saved my life. I have just opened a new Children`s clothing and Toy Boutique on 9th September 2014 and I have named it after my little girl Myleene who I call "My, My" so I have named the Boutique "My, My Little One`s Boutique & The Toy Box. Hope you like the sound. "Smile. The loss of my prostate has changed me but perhaps this is the reason why god gave men a good imagination to be adventurous with his girl to compensate so don`t worry I will still be able to please u and I joked with my doctor to add extra inches on my tongue instead. Smile". No offence meant as I am just being openly honest to you. My little girl was still in the maternity hospital the day I had to drive to another hospital for my biopsy result. I could not bare to look at my little baby girl on my return to see her next day not knowing if I will live or die but I am still here now and think the cancer has gone. So you see I had many difficult times in my life that’s why I look for another more understanding caring loving sentimental sincere genuine girlfriend because my wife was not compassionate or understanding and so did not encourage my recovery. I have my little girl with me as I refuse to be parted from her because I need to know she is safe and has her daddy by her side to protect her through life for as long as god will allow me to. I was never afraid of death until my daughter was born, now I am only afraid in case I have to leave her behind but I hope that time will be many years from now. I hope you will understand my profile for being open and honest and look to hear from you if you are also sincerely searching real love with real man. . I have lots of experience so I will still be able to satisfy my girl so lots of ways . Please do not let a guy buy your love for a few $$$$ because it is sure to fail. Love cannot be bought so if guys offer you it is because they are desperate or even they ask you take off your cloths then they are sick to. Always ask copy of a man`s passport before you meet them, that way if he do bad to you or even leave you pregnant then you can trace him back to his own country where they will make him pay you maintenance for you and the baby so be sure you ask copy of passport first ok. I hope you will like my profile and if sincere girl I hope to hear from you soon. 
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Seeking

A girl who is sincere, genuine, honest, caring, fun, considerate and loving and passionate. Not more than 35 years of age. I do not like greedy selfish girls who are only here to scam foreigners out of money, webcams, laptops etc. I am not desperate so please save it for all those cheating desperat...
A girl who is sincere, genuine, honest, caring, fun, considerate and loving and passionate. Not more than 35 years of age. I do not like greedy selfish girls who are only here to scam foreigners out of money, webcams, laptops etc. I am not desperate so please save it for all those cheating desperate guys out there as I am not one of them. I accept if you have a child because I have my daughter age 6 so she would have a playmate "smile"
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More About Me

Thomas

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
53
21 - 39
Lives in:
Stamford, Lincolnshire, United Kingdom
Any
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Grey / White
Any
Eye color:
Blue
Any
Height:
5'10" (178 cm)
4'9" (145 cm) - No Answer
Weight:
83 kg (183 lb)
No Answer - 57 kg (125 lb)
Body style:
Average
Petite,Slim,Average,Athletic
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Any
Body art:
None
Any
Appearance:
Attractive
Very attractive,Attractive,Average

Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
1
Any
Oldest child:
0
Any
Youngest child:
0
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
Any
Have pets:
Hamster / Guinea Pigs,No Pets
Any
Occupation:
Finance / Banking / Real Estate
Any
Employment status:
Prefer not to say
Any
Annual income:
Prefer not to say
Any
Living situation:
Other
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United Kingdom
Philippines
Education:
Vocational College
Any
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent,Very Good,Good,Some
Indonesian ability:
No Answer
Any
Religion:
No Answer
Any
Chinese sign:
No Answer
Any
Star sign:
Scorpio
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Computers / Internet, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Fashion Events, Family, Home Improvement, Investing / Finance, Music (Listening), Movies / Cinema, Reading, Shopping, Theatre, Traveling, TV: Educational / News, TV: Entertainment, Watching Sports

Food:

Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Indian, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Chinese / Dim Sum, Thai, Eastern European, Mediterranean, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Jazz / Blues, Pop, Reggae, R'n'B / Hip Hop, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Gym / Weight Training, Motor Sports, Pool / Billards, Walking

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Braveheart

Favorite Book:

.

Favorite Food:

seafood

Favorite Music:

R & B or Jazz and country some pop

Dress Style:

Very attractive and good dresser

Humor:

Excellent and sexy

Hobbies & Interests:

Motor racing, theatre and cinema. Travel to exotic destinations walking and sight seeing.

Travelled:

To many to mention.

Cultural Adaption:

very adaptative.

Romance:

In a top class hotel relaxing by the swimming pool eating good food and fine wine with moodlight sic..

Personality:

Warm, loving, sincere, genuine, emotional, sentimental open, fun. Romantic.

My Perfect Match is:

A very loving, passionate, sexy, attractive open minded, caring compassionate and sentimental girl.

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