Hi you can find me and verify I am real and sincere of my intentions to find a wife.
Please. Do not waste my time. 😊 if you are a 3 or 5 year project to get to know before you trust me to talk to you on phone, then pass me please. I need my future wife to evaulate a situation wisely, have courag...
Hi you can find me and verify I am real and sincere of my intentions to find a wife.
Please. Do not waste my time. 😊 if you are a 3 or 5 year project to get to know before you trust me to talk to you on phone, then pass me please. I need my future wife to evaulate a situation wisely, have courage to make important decisions and take action. That is how i am. Also, I provided more information than you probably get from any relationship you had. So, read it over, and if you are undecided , hesitant after. Then delete me, block me, forgive me if it sounds harsh. My time is valuable. Do not waste my time. After this profile answer 2 questions. 1 Do you like me enough to talk to you by phone daily and or regular email? 2 question, Do you believe in God of the Bible, and would you go to church with me weekly? If answer is no to either two questions. Then delete me, block me. Do not request a chat, do not send letters. Thank you 😊
♡Hi. I am Dave in Austin Texas. I am nice but I am not stupid. I am kind hearted, gentle person but am not easily fooled. If you ask me what I am looking for in a woman? I hope I find someone who after seeing me and reading proifile feels conviction, that I am theirs. I am their future husband. Maybe too romantic? I think it is possible. As long as your patient, kind and do not easily get angry we have a great chance. 2nd thing I am looking for. I believe in love at first sight. If you really have love at first sight then first email I would hope you would be bold enough to tell me to request your contact details from this site. If you truly feel this way, and you ask me to do this, then you have my attention. If you ask for more correspondence then you really only want a pen pal letter relationship. I will not respond back. Sorry. I am looking for Romeo and Juliet story. Anything else does not interest me. Why so strange requirement? Because I want your heart to speak to me from 1000s of miles away. I want God himself to speak to your heart so real, that there is no doubt we are to be together. It is that kind of love, in my opinion, that lasts. ;)
I enjoy going to gym, cafes, dining out to new places, eating and living healthy lifestyle. Although I am not really a great dancer, I am ok. Dance clubs are not my environment.
I enjoy spending time with a beautiful woman, who takes care of her inner and outer beauty. I like women who are positive,feminine, wise, sexy, but reserve their sexiness for their mate. I seek a foreign woman because i hope to find a woman who values marriage relationship and willing to invest effort to make it wonderful.
I am a happy and positive person. I do not need someone to make me happy. But I do love marriage relationship and the joy it brings when you both create a loving environment. That is wonderful and what I hope to find in a woman.
I am very skeptical and cautious of this site because I found out some other foreign date sites use men to respond to men's letters, and women in profile are given percentage of profit made.
This site sounds like it may be more reputable, but we will never know until I try. Here I am. Any proof you can provide in picture or letter that you actually are the one responding is appreciated. You have enough clues here to find me and verify I am real.
☆More about me ☆
Ready? Here we go! I like to have fun. Sometimes, I drink milk without using a cup. Lol... I’m kidding...something recent i did in my new vw Jetta . I raced a sporty Honda. I won!!! I like racing, driving fast.
♡I am looking for a wife. My intentions are serious. Here I want to give you an intimate picture of who I am and what I am looking for.♡
I am about to reveal my heart . Ready? Love is a choice, and a commitment. I believe in that. You can not force someone to love another but if you know the “way to ones heart”. It certainly makes it easier.
Unless I hear some letter of REAL and enthusiastic Interest in response then I will keep searching on this site. If your response to this profile is , "do i like sushi or do i like the sea..?" I will probably not respond. I am hear to find someone who opens their heart. I will start by leading by example. I am going to open myself.
Now, I will tell you a big secret of mine and men in general, “men first fall in love through their eyes”. I know I do. That means take caring of outer beauty, your physical looks, dress and being sexy for me only. If you do that, then you have 25% accomplished with me for a lasting relationship. You probably will ask the same of me. Understood! I accept the challenge . Lol. Let's get married! I am kidding....not yet...Let's wait till christmas at least. Lol
What is even more important to me? Inner beauty. Why? Because outer beauty does not last forever. Sorry Maybeline and Revlon...lol... i am kidding. God knows same applies to men. You understand what i mean though. The other ESSENTIAL 25% is your inner beauty. Are you a positive, calm, peaceful, flexible and kind person in words and deeds? If so then you have the ingredients of a long life partner with me. This is the secret formula or key to my heart. I do not ask for perfection, but if you have those qualities and willing to work to those good character traits, we have a great chance at lasting. You may say, what is the difference all men are like this. I really do not think so. Most men for example weigh outer looks as 90% and the rest they vaguely understand or care anything about. Of course these are my opinions. Lol you tell me what do you think?
In my opinion, I weigh the final 50% is a healthy relationship with God. To me this is critical to success of any relationship. For me, I need to have in a wife that loves, respects, and believes in the God of the Bible. Honesty, ethical, kindness, gentleness, unselfishness etc. that’s part of inner beauty too. I am not a perfect man, but a relationship with God to me is important. I do my best to live as close as possible doing what is right. God is my hope, my friend and my savior. I could not live with someone who does not care or value living in sincere faith and love with God or principles of the Bible. I believe if you get a relationship with Jesus right, then all your other relationships and life will work out for the best. No matter what happens. I do like to have fun, joke, go out etc. But I know my limits and hope my future wife will too. I TRY to live by, “Treat others as you want to be treated. And do what is right in Gods eyes.” Again, I am not perfect but that is my goal.
I do want to know more about you, your personally, and how you act when you get mad? Are you willing to change for the benefit of improving a relationship or do you feel pride and become a victim? Those things I really want to know more of. Maybe you can tell me stories. This I ask you write me about this please.
Some profiles of women here I know for certain are fake. I tried another ukraine date site that I found women sold their photos and profile to company to profit and attract foreign men. Then the ones who actually responded to foreign men, were men who tried to have men spend more money writing letters. Then women on Profiles would receive a percentage of profits. It is a fraud and it makes me skeptical of online dating now. I will try this last time here and hopefully have better results. It was incredibly embarrassing to find this out later. A female worker for that site had pity on me i think, because she saw i was sincere. She was in charge of generating letters to all men, she confessed and sent me screenshots of men who work there. She told me to leave site it was fraud. Can you believe how terrible that is?! I hope there are not men writing me....oh no!! God help me....lol.....lol....please be real if you write me.
So this is taking a leap of faith for me to join date site.
What do you think? Does your heart speak to you at this moment and recognize how serious I am?
Are you ready to start a serious relationship together?. Or do you just want to know if I like sushi?... lol .... I do actually! But why would you use my time to know about that on this Site? Lol.... I find it funny and not worth responding to trivial questions. I am sorry. We can be trivial later. Ok? ♡
Who ever i chose on this site, I promise to care, respect, understand, value you, love you, be affectionate, be sincere with you and be your best friend, lover and be faithful to you as long as we live.
I have in mind to travel to meet whoever I choose. I want to spend time with who I have chosen and confirm what I feel and know in person after communicating here.
Relax i am not buying anyone's wedding dress tomorrow, that is next week. I am kidding...lol. I am kidding.., only I am saying I want something serious with a woman here. Unless another woman says she interested in me before YOU give me clear word you want me too, then I will wait for that perfect woman.
Ideally I would like to have this final decision by December some time so I can make travel arrangements to meet whoever I choose.
Think of all the random chances of meeting, of all these women here on site, other sites, of all the woman around the world, and even near by. I believe in fate. It is quite amazing anyone crosses paths when you think of it. Do you think we are in tune in our hearts together? ♡
What is funny to me is women always complain, “ men are afraid of commitment and do not want long relationships”. Then I say to you today, “ I have love at first sight... i m being sincere, I think I want to marry you and could be very happy with you.” Will you say? “Dave you are moving too fast! you do not know me enough! .”. I say, ok then which is it, men move too slow or too fast? Lol. Of course, you do see how this can be frustrating for me? Lol... ok... let me clarify. I am not saying let’s get married tomorrow. I only mean I want a serious relationship if I FIND SOMEONE who agrees on our view on relationships, family, love, God, and if you also feel my qualities are valuable to you. I do not mean rush tomorrow and let’s buy you a wedding dress. Relax please. :) I only want to move forward with regular conversation, contact, and soon phone calls and video calls. Like a normal relationship. You talk over phone daily, you see each other, then you know for sure. Everything will take time, I am not naive. But I also do not like to waste time if I see someone I want. I did this before and had good results. Even with my past relationships flaws. I choose to see the good.
In my previous marriage, and ONLY marriage ever so far, I passed her on the street while walking home, and spoke to her. We were married 6 months after this....my marriage lasted 23 years. Not many people have marriages lasting this long. I married at 21 years old. This proves I know what I like when I see someone and I can make a marriage last a long time. And when my marriage ended recently, I was NOT at fault. I want only one woman the rest of my life. What do you think? Is my age an issue for you? I do not even care about age. We are adults and I am still young. If you are sincere and attracted to my qualities and I to you....Then, I am here waiting to hear from you, ;). HURRY UP! Lol....:)
Since I’ve been asked about why divorce happened, I will answer now too. Well, very long story. This already qualifies as long story if you have read this far!....lol .. once upon a time, there was this handsome Prince who kissed a frog, which turned into what he thought was a princess.... Seriously, after becoming married my exwife always had the bad habit of threatening to divorce and leave me. For example, on our wedding night I went to pick her up after work. Her sister told her I was down stairs to pick her up to go on our honeymoon. My exwife became upset at her new Prince and thought I was rushing her!! Lol...Although I said nothing, I simply was there to pick her up and her sister was the one who said something....Anyway, that attitude never changed. It became worse...it was strange. She was kind during our first 6 month courtship but as soon as we married she showed she was impatient, rude and extremely temperamental. The Princess slowly turned back into a mean, rude FROG, who permanently was combative in her communication to her poor Prince. Always threatening over small disagreements to leave, go back to her county Mexico and divorce her Prince. The Prince would cry , and try to make things better in the first years, then after some time. It became old. It is very unstable to have someone who constantly uses divorce as a threat. Later many years, we became more mature in relationship overall. But still the same issue continued, threats of divorce instead of working out differences. I am a relaxed, patient, analytical person, and she (now a frog) was a volcano who thought her loud words were justified always, and were somehow going to bring a solution to differences.
I have been asked if I was attentive. Yes. I was. But when you are disrespected, yelled at, and insulted. Then I will confess my attention grew less and less. She refused to change or acknowledge her communication was combative. Who can withstand such treatment with someone who enjoys to combat instead of compromise? At that point it is better to end peacefully if there is no possible reconcilialtion by the other party. An excuse she used often was it was her personality she could not change it. Her mother, grandmother have the same personailty and both generations had difficult marriages that ended in infedility and divorce. All of them loud, combative, and disrespectful towards their ex husbands.
As I told her, you are your own person. You cannot blame your past or your upbringing. You have to improve and change with time for the sake of relationship and family well being. She did not think it a problem or possible. Nor did she have any interest to change,
She revealed accidently, she wanted to still after many years married,, her intention was STILL to leave me as soon as my daughter turned 18. I confronted her kindly, calmly. hurt, and She admitted that was her intentions. Still I tried to convince her to work things out. And it was useless, she never changed her mind. And although my daughter is currently 16, I told her calmly. I want peace. If you will not change your mind, and have no intention to work things out. Fine. I will give you what you want. It is better we end in peace and soon as possible if you have no intention to work this out together. She said she did not want to work it out. I said. I will give you what you want. And we recently submitted for divorce. That is how it happened, this is why I say, you CAN NOT make someone love you. Love is definitely a choice and a commitment. I tried all I could. So now I am waiting for my NEW Princess for a happy ending. :) ...LOL... where are you?!!!!
Eventually the truth comes out . It is better to be as transparent as possible of ones intentions in a relationship, this is why, I am being clear as possible on my intentions with before entering a relationship?
Time to take a deep breath and change the subject...
Regarding religion: I am Christian Protestant, and God is everything for me. My strength, refuge, where I find wisdom, guidance and peace.
I have determined that above everything else I could say in this letter. It is critical I find someone who gives God importance and priority in life. I could find a Victoria secrets model, but if she lacks spiritual importance in her life, I will have to pass. I have seen how important faith in God is to make it that iin life. So, I look forward to hearing more about what you think regarding this.
I regularly go to church every Sunday, and enjoy being there. I don’t want to be in a situation where my spouse again shows no interest in things of God. I love life, having fun but I live in gratitude to the one who has always been there for me. Does that sound boring, I hope not ...lol. Again, you can not force someone to love you, God is the same I think.
Ok. That was really heavy and deep. Let me change the subject.
How do you like where you live? I hear it is beautiful city. I will warn you USA is more about commerce, business, little culture, and not as beautiful. Inst. daveinaustintexas I would say my city of Austin Texas is ok. It has some hills and not flat terrain like other cities. Overall it is ok. It will be something to get use to if you move here with me. I hope you can adjust and not miss Ukraine that much.
Although I do plan to move to Las Vegas Nevada in 1 or 2 years. That’s a fun place to be. I enjoy that area more. I vacation sometimes there. But again USA is more about commerce and business not so much beauty of cities. They make an effort but a poor effort in my opinion. It has its nice places and it’s not so beautiful places.
Do you think that you could move to USA without missing your country too much? Hopefully being with me, my affection and love would make the difference. To me home is where the family is. And my family is my future wife.
A final note. I want to be transparent and real. If after opening my heart to completely in this very long profile, you tell me , “you still do not know me enough”, or write me, "Do i like sushi or cinema...?"
i May feel frustrated with that response.
Why would you ask such a trivial question after reading my profile? Lol...we do not have to be serious or deep always. But sushi??? Everyone loves sushi....lol...I am kidding.. .. I told you relax.I am not planning wedding for next week, that is scheduled for December. 25th, we have more time.....I am jokng....you probably think I am crazy...I am kidding about December 25th,,, New Years is better for me....no, not really, relax..... you see I joke a lot.....too Much? Lol ♡
The fact is, I am giving ALL the information on myself anyone rcould ever want to know...Any other man, would never reveal as much as I did here in this profile, and never be willing to offer relationship so easily. I think you have seen, men do not easily commit to relationships worldwide , NOT just Europe. The biggest difference with me, is I VALUE marriage and I desire to be married in near future instead of going to clubs and date various women. It is VERY common even in USA for men to prefer clubs and random women, with no commitment. It is your choice. I respect everyone. But I think you have seen your country is no different. See,it is not about countries, it is more about what is in ones heart and values. It’s not man or woman IN a different country, it’s the heart IN the man or woman. I am trying to see what's really in a persons heart.
I am searching for a brave woman that recognizes this reality, and says, “I like you very much, and you are telling the truth. I sense your sincerity and will move forward to next steps.” I will pay attention and respond to that woman. Women to shy or scared, I may not respond back. I need my future wife to be a bold and brave person too. Kind, but brave... I think once I find a woman who responds this way, I will stop my search completely.
My relationship status is still open. I have not found that person who responds how I hope. I look forward to reading correspondence here. Let’s see what happens. :)
More information on who I am and personal background:
My 16 year old daughter lives with me but soon she will be going to college in about 2 years. She will move out then and live her own life. She is a good girl. She wants to study video game development, computer coding.
Do you have family in Ukraine? Where are originally from?
More random facts about me, I have a pet, a small dog. a white Maltipoo named Snowy. He is very affectionate and cute. What else can I tell you? Ask me anything you want. Also, my parents and 3 younger brothers live in Houston Texas. I was born in Mexico City, ,Mexico. I am fluent in Spanish too. I grew up in USA almost all my life. since 1 year old.
I went to school / college for Pre professional Theater. My goal was to be an actor, and later a acting professor. I did do both for some time, but left acting afterwards. I lived in New York City, Hollywood, Mexico City, and worked as an actor right after college. Later due to my first marriage I left my profession and worked various jobs in sales, finance and investments. I have been working in real estate inspections and some real estate sales independently. That’s where I am at professionally. In my free time trade my own money in forex market. At one time I was a currency options broker which I loved. It’s a long story I well tell you some other time. I hope to eventually only do that as my profession in the future to work remotely anywhere in the world.
I am middle class, not rich, and definitely not poor. My income is good but I do not drive a Ferrari......yet. Maybe one day if I work even harder... lol I have 2 Volkswagen a new red Jetta which I really like. Then for work a small vw rabbit since I travel a lot to work. I may want to get my new wife a nicer car when I find her. We will see.
As far as future wife moving here, my future wife can work or not work, your choice. I will support and love you either way and will give you ideas and maybe even work together in same business as family. Who knows?
How do I spend free time? It depends on available money or budget. If I can I go travel to near by cities, or simply go shopping... hehehe lol I like shopping when possible. I am not a complicated person. I am happy doing anything or nothing sometimes. Going out to cinema is regular event. Going out to cafes to read, be on computer, or just enjoy being out. Eating out to different restaurants, going to parks, going to gym, and maybe local events in city. Some weekends if work was too much, I rest and listen to favorite music, Jazz, Sade, Nora Jones, or Depeche Mode, Skillet, U2, Christian music. All while drinking my green tea, and healthy snacks accompanied by my small dog snowy. I enjoy being home too. I do not have to spend money to be happy. I think I am normal. I do not drink alcohol, do not smoke and do not go to dance clubs. Everything else I love. I am wise, affectionate, kind, very sensual, romantic, loving, faithful, honest, hard worker, innovative, entrepreneurial, and want the best for my family’s future. I value someone who is family oriented like myself.
Do you have your eye on someone else? I prefer honesty and transparency. I am happy single or married. I do not suffer from uncontrollable loneliness. I prefer to pass on women that are not a good match, and wait for the right one. Everything you could want to know about me, and how to win my heart is here in profile. However, I do prefer marriage because I do not like typical bachelor lifestyle of dating various random women. I prefer finding a wonderful woman, and marry her to invest my resources, love, time and all my heart instead of quick meaningless relationships. So am I ready for marriage? yes. I am just waiting to find that woman who will not pass up the offer I am making..
I hope now you have a better picture of me now :)