51 • Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Male / Divorced / ID: 4518940
Seeking Female 18 - 40 For: Marriage
Last active: 4 months ago
Education, Gardening / Landscaping, Library, Reading, Science and Technology
Other, Vegetarian / Organic, Vegan
Athletics, Bowling, Bodybuilding, Cycling, Martial Arts, Table Tennis, Volleyball
Don't have one! I don't watch much! That does not mean that after we marry that I would be opposed to some down time together! I must admit that I do LOVE Marvel Comics Movies, I grow up on the books!
Al Qur'an, Bukhari and Muslim, The Prophet's Prayer (sallallaah alaihi wasallam) described from the begining to the end as though you see it by Shaikh Muhammad Naasir-ud-Deen Al-Albaani (rahimahullah), and The Search For The Truth by A Man Know As Salman The Persian compiled by Dr. Saleh As-Saleh, weeping from the Fear of Allaah by Shaykh Husayn Al- Awaayishah one of the studients of Shaykh Al-Albaanee, Advices of Abu Ad-Dardaa by Shaykh Saalih ibn Abdul Aziz Aali Shaykh, The Ideological Attack by Shaykh Abdul- Azeez bin Baaz, Forty Hadeeth On: The Call To Islam and the Caller, Sharh Al-Aqeedat-ti-Wasitiyah by Sheikh ul-Islam Ibn Taimiyah, Explanation of the Three Fundamental Principles of Islaam by the Noble Shaykh Muhammad ibn Al- Uthaymeen, The Methodology of The Saved Sect by Shaikh Muhammad bin Jameel Zaynoo, The Status of the People of Hadeeth Their Feats and Praiseworthy Effects in the Religion by Shaikh Rabee ibn Haadee, The Aqeedah & Methodology of the Great Imaams Of The Past: Mountains Of Knowledge (may Allaah have Mercy on all whom have been mentioned)...
As for books that are secular in nature, I prefer books that teach me something, I really am trying not to waste much time, time is one of the most precious of commodities, once it passes you can not get it back! Time Is Our Most Valuable Resource—And So I Try Not To Waste It!
That being said I'm reading on the following subject: Nutrition Herbal Medicine Social psychology The Psychology of Persuasion Behavioral Economics Critical Thinking Skills Social Intelligence Health and Life Coaching
I Eat a Whole Food Plant-Based Diet, No meat, eggs or dairy!
Music is Haram!!!
I am always clean and neat and well-groomed in whatever I wear, and at all times I am able to be identified as a Muslim by those who are not Muslim!
I follow the command of the Prophet(sallallaahu alaihi wa salaam) upon the understanding of our Salaf-us-Saalih! I follow the command to leave the beard as a grows and to trim the mustache and to diet the beard red...
I take care to nourish my body mind and soul, taking care of them all, doing my best to remain balanced in all aspects of my life, it is a lifelong process and I hope to pass this on to you and our children bi'ithnillah (By the permission of Allah!)
I try and train/workout 5-6 times a week and I am told that I look like I'm in my 30s... I will try to take and upload a few more pictures and you be the judge.
I like to laugh! As with all things there is a time and a place for it and we should not go beyond bounds with it... Smile!!! I will play with you and you with me and will shall laugh In Shaa Allaah!!!
I am a voracious reader and learner, I am what is called an Autodidact, a Self Directed Learner! If there is something that I need to learn, I do what is necessary (get the books, join a class, get a coach, etc.)
I love to train, I try to train/workout at least 5-6 days a week! I would LOVE to train with my zawj! Good health is VERY important to me, we pass on our health good or bad to our off spring and I want to give the best that I can to them and then grow and nurture them upon that!
I love martial arts otherwise I've never taken a formal class, I've had friends that are teachers and I would spar with them.
I also like growing and eating my own food and plan to do so again once I marry In Shaa Allaah!
I do Not travel just for the sake of traveling or fun, I Travel for seeking Knowledge and for business and to keep the ties of kinship
The Sharee'ah has put guidelines on the type of siyaahah (tourism) that is acceptable in Islam.
Islamic sharee’ah has brought a number of rulings that regulate siyaahah so that it will achieve the aims mentioned above and will not overstep the mark or become a source of evil and harm in society. These rulings include the following:
1. It is haraam to travel for the purpose of venerating a specific place, except the three mosques.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “No journey should be undertaken to visit any mosque but three: al-Masjid al-Haraam, the Mosque of the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and the Mosque of al-Aqsa.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (1132) and Muslim (1397).
This hadeeth indicates that it is haraam to undertake “religious journeys”, as they are called, to any mosque other than these three, such as those who call for travelling to visit graves or mashhads (shrines) or tombs or mausoleums, especially those tombs that are venerated by people and from which they seek blessing, and they commit all kinds of shirk and haraam actions there. There is nothing in sharee’ah to suggest that places are sacred and that acts of worship should be done in them apart from these three mosques.
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: I went out to al-Toor (Sinai) where I met Ka’b al-Ahbaar and sat with him … He mentioned a lengthy hadeeth then he said: Then I met Basrah ibn Abi Basrah al-Ghifaari who said: From where have you come? I said: From Sinai. He said: If I had met you before you went out, you would not have gone to that place. I heard the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) say: “Mounts are not to be ridden except to three mosques: al-Masjid al-Haraam, this mosque of mine and the mosque of Eeliya’ or Bayt al-Maqdis [Jerusalem].”
Narrated by Maalik in al-Muwatta’ (108) and al-Nasaa’i (1430). Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Nasaa’i.
So it is not permissible to travel with the aim of visiting any holy place except these three. This does not mean that it is haraam to visit mosques in Muslim lands, because visiting them is prescribed and is mustahabb. Rather what is forbidden is setting out with that aim. If a person has another reason for travelling, and he happens to visit the mosque too, there is nothing wrong with that, rather he is obliged to pray Jumu’ah and prayers in congregation.
It is even more haraam to travel to visit places that are regarded as holy in other religions, such as those who go to visit the Vatican or Buddhist idols and so on.
2. The evidence also indicates that it is haraam for the Muslim to travel in kaafir lands in general, because of the evils that will affect the Muslim’s religious commitment and attitude as the result of mixing with those nations who pay no attention to religion and morals, especially when there is no need for him to travel for medical treatment or business and so on, rather it is just for leisure and for fun. Allaah has made the Muslim lands spacious, praise be to Allaah, and He has placed therein wonders of creation so that there is no need to visit the kaafirs in their lands.
Shaykh Saalih al-Fawzaan (may Allaah preserve him) said:
Travelling to kaafir lands is not permissible, because there are many dangers posed to one’s beliefs and morals by mixing with the kuffaar and staying among them. But if there is a valid need and a sound purpose for travelling, such as travelling for medical treatment that is not available in a Muslim country, or travelling to study something that is not available in a Muslim country, or travelling for business purposes, these are valid purposes for which it is permissible to travel to kaafir countries, provided that one adheres to the rituals of Islam and is able to carry out his religious duties in that country, but that (travel) should be done only as much as is necessary, then one should return to the Muslim world.
As for travelling for tourism, that is not permissible, because the Muslim has no need of that and it does not serve any interest that matches or outweighs the harm and danger to his religious commitment and beliefs that it involves.
Al-Muntaqa min Fataawa al-Shaykh al-Fawzaan (2/question no. 221)
We have already discussed this question in detail and at length on our site. Please see the answers to question no. 52845, 8919 and 13342.
3. There can be no doubt that sharee’ah forbids tourism in places of corruption, where alcohol is drunk and immoral actions take place and sins are committed, such as beaches and parties and immoral places, or travelling to hold celebrations on innovated festivals. The Muslim is enjoined to keep away from sin so he should not commit sin or sit with those who are committing sin.
The scholars of the Standing Committee said:
It is not permissible to go to places of corruption for the sake of tourism, because of the danger that poses to one’s religious commitment and morals. Islam came to block the means that lead to evil.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (26/332).
So how about tourism that encourages sin and immorality, and is organized in order to promote it and spread it?
The scholars of the Standing Committee also said:
If this tourism involves making it easy to commit sin and evils, and promotes them, then it is not permissible for the Muslim who believes in Allaah and the Last Day to help others to disobey Allaah and go against His commands. If a person gives up something for the sake of Allaah, Allaah will compensate him with something better than it.
Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah (26/224).
4. With regard to visiting the ruins and places of former nations, if they are places of punishment where they were swallowed up by the earth, transformed or destroyed because of their disbelief in Allaah, then it is not permissible to take those places as sites for tourism and recreation.
The scholars of the Standing Committee were asked:
In the city of al-Bada’, near Tabook, there is an area where there are ancient ruins and houses carved out of the mountains, and some people say that these were the dwellings of the people of Shu’ayb (peace be upon him). My question is: Has it been proven that these were the dwellings of the people of Shu’ayb (peace be upon him) or not? What is the ruling on visiting these ruins for one whose aim is to have a look at them, and the one whose aim is to ponder and learn a lesson?
It is well known among the scholars that the houses of Madyan to whom the Prophet of Allaah Shu’ayb (peace be upon him) was sent were in the north-west of the Arabian Peninsula, which is now known as al-Bada’ and its environs.
Allaah knows best what is really true. If this is correct, then it is not permissible to visit those places for the purpose of having a look at them, because when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) passed though al-Hijr – which was where the houses of Thamood were – he said: “Do not enter the dwellings of those who wronged themselves unless you are weeping, lest there befall you something like that which befell them.” Then he covered his head and urged his mount to move on quickly until he left the place behind.
Narrated by al-Bukhaari (3200) and Muslim (2980).
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, whilst listing the lessons and rulings learned from the campaign to Tabook:
One who passes by the places of those who were subjected to divine wrath or who were punished should not enter them or stay among them, rather he should hasten to move on and should cover his head with his garment until he has passed them, and he should not enter upon them unless he is weeping and willing to learn a lesson. An example of this is when the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) hastened to move on in the valley of Muhsir, between Mina and Muzdalifah, because it was the place where Allaah destroyed the elephant and its companions.
Zaad al-Ma’aad (3/560).
Al-Haafiz Ibn Hajar (may Allaah have mercy on him) said, commenting on the hadeeth quoted above:
This applies to the dwellings of Thamood and others like them, though the reason was given concerning them.
Fath al-Baari (6/380).
See: Majmoo’at Abhaath Hay’at Kibaar al-‘Ulama’ fi’l-Mamlakat al-‘Arabiyyah al-Sa’oodiyyah, vol. 3, essay entitled Hukm Ihya’ Diyaar Thamood.
See also the answer to question no. 20894.
5 – It is also not permissible for a woman to travel without a mahram. The scholars have stated that it is haraam for a woman to travel without a mahram for Hajj or ‘umrah, so how about if the travel is for the purpose of tourism which involves a lot of carelessness and haraam mixing?!
See the answers to questions no. 3098, 69337, 45917 and 4523.
6 – As for organizing trips for kuffaar in Muslim countries, the basic principle is that it is permissible. If a kaafir tourist is granted permission by a Muslim state to enter, then he is granted safety until he leaves. But during his stay in the Muslim country he should be required to show respect for the Islamic religion and the morals and culture of the Muslims; he should not call people to his religion or claim that Islam is false, and he should only go out in clothes that are appropriate for a Muslim country, not as they are accustomed to dress in their country, semi naked and decadent. He should not be a helper or spy for his people. And finally the kuffaar should not be allowed to visit the two Holy Sanctuaries in Makkah and Madeenah al-Munawwarah.
It is obvious to everyone that tourism (siyaahah) nowadays mostly involves sin, immoral deeds and transgression of the sacred limits, such as deliberate wanton display and nakedness, permissive mixing, drinking of alcohol, promotion of corruption, imitation of the kuffaar and introduction of their customs and ways, and even their diseases, let alone a waste of money, time and effort. All of that happens in the name of tourism. We remind everyone who is concerned about his religion, morals and ummah not to help to promote this evil kind of tourism; rather he should fight it and fight against the culture that it promotes; he should be proud of his religion, culture and morals, for they will protect him against all evils, and give him an alternative in the conservative Muslim lands.
And Allaah knows best.
I want to make Hajj and Ummarah! BaarakAllaahu feeki wa Jazaaki Allaahu Khairan for reading!
My Culture is Islam and everything else come after that so as long as there is NO Bid'a (innovations) involved I don't for see any problems! In Shaa Allaah!
That is something that must be contemplated after We know Each Other!
I am upon Salafiyyah with the Best of Akhlaq and Adab!
The Importance of Adab (manners) and Akhlaq (character)
“I have not been sent as a Messenger, except to perfect character (Akhlaaq)” He also said that: “The nearest of you to me on the Day of Judgement will be the one who is best in character.” (Bukhari)
Ibn Al-Mubarak said, “Mukhlid Ibn al-Husayn once said to me, ‘We are more in need of acquiring adab than learning Hadith’.
This highlights that knowledge alone is insufficient to build a sound and balanced Islamic personality. Imam Zakariya al-Anbari once said:
‘Knowledge without Adab is like fire without wood, and Adab without knowledge is like a spirit without a body’.
Sometimes I'm quiet and contemplative, sometimes I'm VERY playful and mischievous(in a halal way), and I have taught myself to be a very good listener, So You Can Voice You concerns and I will Listen, for what you have to say is important to me!!!
I am a very patient gentle and soft-hearted man and over the years I have gained some knowledge and wisdom al-hamdulilaah!
I'm very serious about the Deen of Islam and live my life under the guidance of the Quran and Sunnah as understood and practiced by the Sahabah (our Salaf-us-Saalih!!!)
There is NO Such Thing as Perfect match when it comes to People! Mur aatu Saaliha (a Righteous Woman)!