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John
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Last active: over 12 months ago

57 Nashville, Tennessee, United States

Male / Separated / ID: 484502

Seeking Female 29 - 49 living in Indonesia For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

John

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - live at home
Any

Drink:

Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

Technical / Science / Engineering
Any

Member Overview

I enjoy walks in the park, movies, fishing and boating. I love the lights and activities of a big city yet also enjoy camping in the mountains and listening to the sounds of nature and pondering the stars and galaxies in the sky. I like a good dinner, grilling outside (BBQ) and conversation. I'm am...
I enjoy walks in the park, movies, fishing and boating. I love the lights and activities of a big city yet also enjoy camping in the mountains and listening to the sounds of nature and pondering the stars and galaxies in the sky. I like a good dinner, grilling outside (BBQ) and conversation. I'm am also into trying most anything new and different, at least once, :) I was brought up well, have good manners and treat people as I would like to be treated and expect the same in return. "Games" and scam attempts WILL NOT be tolerated and will be reported as such, sorry to have to state that, but, I have seen both the good and bad sides of life. I like old rock, country, punk music and enjoy (Hollywood) classic and well written movies yet I get into some of the newer stuff too. I appreciate creativity in many areas of life and don't really care for mass produced junk. I grew up near the mountains of Northeast Tennessee where things are a bit quieter and more relaxed than there are here in this capital city where I currently live. But there are more opportunities and many different activities to be found here, but just not as much snow in the winter. :( I enjoy travel both inside and out of the U.S. I've been many popular cities in the U.S. and to the Bahamas, Mexico, Canada, Italy, Switzerland, UK, U.S. and British Virgin Islands, Puerto RIco and China outside the States so far. I've dated Asian women before (very few but enough to know about the cultural aspects, and no, I'm not a "playboy" nor am I rich), including one woman from Jakarta, so I know a little about the cultural issues involved and some of the good and bad situations that can occur. I may not exactly understand some of the differences, but, I try.. ;) I enjoy working with my hands, working on high performance cars, fishing with my sons, visiting my sis and parents, looking through telescopes, reading, learning, and improving myself. I'm not very politically correct, but I try not to offend people and listen to opposing viewpoints. I'm not perfect and have never claimed to be, so I may be be a little rough around the edges, but I am always open to learning and improving myself and feel I'm a good person who treats others nicely. I enjoy listening to other peoples life experiences also. If you have any questions, just ask and I'll try to answer them. :)
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Seeking

My current interest - a friend/penpal Future interest - to be discussed As for what I look for in a partner, someone who is nice, caring, interesting, funny (or enjoys humor) and is somewhat attractive. A person who who can think on their own and is not afraid to speak what's on their mind (no ...
My current interest - a friend/penpal Future interest - to be discussed As for what I look for in a partner, someone who is nice, caring, interesting, funny (or enjoys humor) and is somewhat attractive. A person who who can think on their own and is not afraid to speak what's on their mind (no constant complaining please). I'm looking for someone who is comfortable and happy with themselves and makes me want to be with them. Life isn't always perfect, but with the right partner I feel it would be much more enjoyable.
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More About Me

John

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
57
29 - 49
Lives in:
Nashville, Tennessee, United States
Indonesia
Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
Any

Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
Light Brown, Brown, Black, Changes frequently
Hair length:
Short
Long, Medium, Short
Hair type:
Straight
Any
Eye color:
Hazel
Any
Eye wear:
Glasses
Any
Height:
6'1" (186 cm)
4'7" (140 cm) - 5'9" (176 cm)
Weight:
98 kg (216 lb)
40 kg (88 lb) - 64 kg (141 lb)
Body style:
Average
Petite, Slim, Average, Athletic, Few Extra Pounds
Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
Other, Asian, Pacific Islander, Mixed
Facial hair:
Clean Shaven
N/A
Best feature:
My Personality
My Eyes, My Smile, My Personality, My Wallet, If You're lucky I'll show you later
Body art:
Tattoo
Earrings, None
Appearance:
Attractive
Any

Lifestyle

Drink:
Don't drink
Don't drink, Occasionally drink
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke, Occasionally smoke
Marital Status:
Separated
Any
Have children:
Yes - live at home
Any
Number of children:
2
0, 1
Oldest child:
11
Any
Youngest child:
8
Any
Want (more) children:
No
Any
Have pets:
Fish
Any
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Engineering
Any
Employment status:
Full Time
Any
Income:
No Answer
Any
Home type:
House
Any
Living situation:
Live with kids
Any

Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
Indonesia, Malaysia
Education:
Masters Degree
Vocational College, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
English
Any
English ability:
Fluent
Fluent, Very Good, Good, Some
Indonesian ability:
None
Fluent, Very Good, Good
Religion:
Other
Any
Chinese sign:
Tiger
Any
Star sign:
Aries
Any

Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Camping / Nature, Cars / Mechanics, Computers / Internet, Cooking / Food and Wine, Dining Out, Education, Family, Gardening / Landscaping, Home Improvement, Library, Music (Listening), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Photography, Science and Technology, Traveling, Volunteering

Food:

American, French, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Soul Food, California-Fusion, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Deli, Korean, Mediterranean, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Classical / Opera, Country / Folk, Jazz / Blues, Metal, Rock, World

Sport:

Auto Racing, Baseball / Softball, Biking, Boating / Sailing, Bowling, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Fishing, Golf, Hiking, Hunting / Shooting, Jet / Water Skiing, Motor Sports, Pool / Billards, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Skiing / Snowboarding, Swimming, Table Tennis, Tennis / Badminton, Volleyball, Walking, Wrestling

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

Doctor Zhivago

Favorite Book:

Still Life With Woodpecker

Favorite Food:

Traditional Southern U.S., Asian, Italian, Mexican, love seafood. I also like to cook new recipes at home.

Favorite Music:

Most anything but rap.

Dress Style:

Comfortable in anything from a t-shirt and jeans to a suit and tie. I've worked for three international companies so I know how to dress and present myself appropriately for the occasion.

Humor:

Love to laugh and joke. Can be very serious or crazy funny.

Hobbies & Interests:

I enjoy working with my hands on cars, house, yard. I like travel when I can and see new sights such as people historical sites and museums. Some of my hobbies include photography, astronomy, reading, learning and fishing with my sons to name a few.

Travelled:

I've been lucky enough to visit the Bahamas, Mexico, Canada, China, Italy, Switzerland, UK/London, U.S. and British Virgin Islands, Puerto Rico and Las Vegas, ha. My sister was nice enough to take me to some of those countries on her business trips. I hope to travel to Italy or somewhere in Asia for my next vacation.

Cultural Adaption:

I feel I'm rather open to other cultures and their ways of life and tolerant of other religions. I may not understand a person's background or traditions at times and need to be educated by my partner. I try to be nice and respectful to others regardless of their upbringing, whether here in the States or overseas

Romance:

Walking, talking, holding hands and enjoying each others company, taking care of each others needs and desires, no matter how small so that they feel special. Going outside the house/hotel to enjoy some sight seeing, activities, dining and maybe a little shopping if they like. I've outgrown the club scene but will accompany a companion out for an evening if that's what they enjoy occasionally.

Personality:

Nice, friendly, respectful, helpful and easygoing usually. I try to find humor in most problems in life but occasionally do get frustrated at some situations and try to just walk away from them for a few moments if possible and regroup.

My Perfect Match is:

Someone who is loving, caring, trusting, romantic and truthful. Too much to ask for? I hope not.

For any relationship to grow and prosper two-way communication is important and I believe this is especially true if a multi-cultural relationship is to succeed. If either person doesn't like or doesn't understand the what their partner has said or asked, they need to try and let them know that and not let problems grow too large.

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