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Grant
Standard Member
Last active: over 12 months ago

61 North Atlanta, Georgia, United States

Male / Divorced / ID: 744554

Seeking Female 18 - 52 For: Penpal, Friendship, Romance / Dating, Marriage

Last active: over 12 months ago

Overview

Grant

He's Looking For

Education:

Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate

Have children:

Yes - sometimes live at home
Any

Drink:

Occasionally drink
Any

Smoke:

Don't smoke
Don't smoke

Religion:

Other
Any

Occupation:

IT / Communications
Any

Member Overview

I am a quiet, family oriented, spiritual man. I am an Uncommon Man, especially for an American man. I am quiet yet deep, a warrior and a spiritual person wrapped up together. I have worked hard my life, I have raised three children as a single father, have been married and divorced a few times, en...
I am a quiet, family oriented, spiritual man. I am an Uncommon Man, especially for an American man. I am quiet yet deep, a warrior and a spiritual person wrapped up together. I have worked hard my life, I have raised three children as a single father, have been married and divorced a few times, encountered obstacles in life and have made it over every one. But I have not yet found a good woman that wants to be loved and appreciated as my wife and is willing to be a good partner without drama, drugs, or laziness. I have been a good husband and family man and provider. So now I look here and perhaps I can find a good Heart to share life with me. I've always wanted a good woman to be my wife who would be a good partner in the marriage and who would work hard like me and help contribute to our income and early retirement so we can spend our lives with family and traveling and enjoying life. I am a senior software developer and architect. I am developing specialized business intelligence and spiritual training DVDs as well as some software and writing a couple of books. I have not yet found a good woman out there that was interested in me and a career in computers and a family business too. My plan was to work hard so I could retire early. I have wanted a wife who would help with this as well as being loving, stable, dedicated, intelligent, sensual, and who viewed marriage as a partnership where we both work together to build a good life and a good family. I haven't found such a woman. I have tried with some women but they didn't want to work. They just wanted me to do all the work while they worked at not being good partners or a good wife.
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Seeking

I'm looking for a good woman who can be my wife for the rest of my life. She will be beautiful of Heart and Soul. She will be like me in some ways - Quiet yet deep, spiritual, sensual, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, no drama just quiet love and happiness. Family and home oriented, liking to li...
I'm looking for a good woman who can be my wife for the rest of my life. She will be beautiful of Heart and Soul. She will be like me in some ways - Quiet yet deep, spiritual, sensual, non-smoker, light drinker, no drugs, no drama just quiet love and happiness. Family and home oriented, liking to live a quiet life. I am looking for friendship first then eventual marriage. So, are there any good, intelligent, hard working women out there who do not mind my lack of handsomeness and my age who would be interested in being my partner in work, business, life, and love? You will need a bachelor's degree, English language skills, a willingness to work at a career in computers and developing training videos, and be willing to live with a loving, affectionate, family oriented man with no bad habits except working a bit too hard. I can provide training and career direction. I love kids. I have raised three of them to adults as a single father. I've had a vasectomy and while it can be reversed I may not be fertile any longer to have additional children. However, I am open to your existing children and adoption. What do you want out of life? A good husband, career, and family? Eventually a big enough family business where we can live anywhere we want and travel frequently? A man who will always hold you in his arms, day and night? And hold your hand as we walk smiling into our beautiful future? If you are interested please contact me. Please note that when I say "spiritual" I don't mean "religious". There is a difference. My spirituality is more of a unique spiritual path through meditation, somewhat Buddhist-like, and is based upon many interesting experiences I have had in life. It is not religious. And I am not a Christian. I'm more of a Deist who keeps an open mind about many things and does not presume to tell people what they should or should not be doing. Explaining this here is too long to write here but please ask me if you want. You do not have to believe or think like me. I expect you to have your own beliefs and thinking. And an open mind. If you are very religious and have a closed mind then I am not the guy for you. Also please note that I am looking for a couple of new pen pals and friends. There is much inner beauty and uniqueness to be found in some people. I keep my eyes open for such people. So if I send you my interest or an email it does not necessarily mean I am thinking of you as potential wife material. Please ask me if it is not clear. We would have to be good friends first before talking marriage. I want to make a good choice and not hurry it along. And, yes, I can come visit you. And, no, I won't send you any money. And, yes, I am very honest and expect the same from you. Lie to me and our friendship or relationship will be over. And, yes, anyone I am serious about will have her background checked. And she can check mine. Thanks for reading all this! Best wishes to you in your search.
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More About Me

Grant

He's Looking For

Basic

Gender:
Male
Female
Age:
For privacy reasons, age is accurate to within 2 weeks
61
18 - 52
Lives in:
North Atlanta, Georgia, United States
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Relocate:
Not sure about relocating
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Appearance

Hair color:
Brown
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Hair length:
No Answer
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Hair type:
No Answer
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Eye color:
Brown
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Eye wear:
No Answer
Any
Height:
5'6" (168 cm)
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Weight:
109 kg (240 lb)
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Body style:
Full Figured
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Ethnicity:
Caucasian (White)
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Facial hair:
Medium Beard
N/A
Best feature:
My Butt
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Body art:
None
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Appearance:
Average
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Lifestyle

Drink:
Occasionally drink
Any
Smoke:
Don't smoke
Don't smoke
Marital Status:
Divorced
Any
Have children:
Yes - sometimes live at home
Any
Number of children:
3
Any
Oldest child:
Older than 18
Any
Youngest child:
Older than 18
Any
Want (more) children:
Not Sure
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Have pets:
No Pets
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Occupation:
IT / Communications
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Employment status:
Full Time
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Income:
$60,001 - $120,000 USD
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Home type:
Town house
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Living situation:
Live with kids
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Background / Cultural Values

Nationality:
United States
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Education:
Masters Degree
Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD or Doctorate
Languages spoken:
No Answer
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English ability:
Fluent
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Indonesian ability:
None
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Religion:
Other
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Chinese sign:
Don't Know
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Star sign:
Pisces
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Hobbies & Interests

Entertainment:

Art / Painting, Camping / Nature, Computers / Internet, Dancing, Dining Out, Dinner Parties, Education, Family, Karaoke / Sing-along, Library, Music (Listening), Music (Playing), Meditation, Movies / Cinema, Museums / Galleries, Pets, Philosophy / Spirituality, Photography, Poetry, Reading, Science and Technology, Theatre, Traveling, Writing

Food:

American, Barbecue, Seafood, Cajun / Southern, Greek, Indian, South American, Caribbean/Cuban, Italian, Southwestern, Chinese / Dim Sum, Japanese / Sushi, Thai, Fast Food / Pizza, Mexican, Vietnamese

Music:

Alternative, Classical / Opera, New Age, Pop, Rock, Soft Rock, World

Sport:

Basketball, Biking, Canoe / Kayak, Cycling, Hang Gliding / Paragliding, Hiking, Horse Riding, Hunting / Shooting, Ice Skating / Ice Hockey, Jogging / Running, Martial Arts, Parachuting / BASE Jumping, Scuba Diving / Snorkeling, Squash / Racquetball, Swimming, Walking, Wrestling

More About Me

Favorite Movie:

I have many favorite movies. They span quite a range. I like a movie that is well done (acting, cast, plot, etc), tells a good uplifting story or makes a good statement, or is just plain good entertainment. I generally like good science fiction, action/adventure, some fantasy, some human interest, some documentaries, some foreign films, and even some "chick flicks".

Favorite Book:

Ah, what a question! That too spans a range of diverse interests. Books I value for what they bring to me and to the world at large. Jonathan Livingston Seagull, The Stars My Destination, The Art of Selfishness, Cosmic Consciousness by Burke (1907) are all on my very small special book bookshelf. But for diversion and recreational reading I like science fiction and miliary adventure novels. I am open to expanding my reading to other areas. Do you have any recommendations?

Favorite Food:

Standard American cuisine and foreign food including Chinese, Thai, Cabrillo (goat), duck, and more. It's got to be nutritious and healthy though.

Favorite Music:

There's so much good music being made nowadays that I have a challenge keeping up with it. My musical interests are diverse and span from today back to the 70s, mostly pop, rock, a little hip hop, a little new age, harp music, Native American flute, and some classical.

Dress Style:

I most often dress cleanly, simply, and utilitarian. I wear dress shirts and slacks (no tie...hate them!) to work every day. Dress casual on weekends. I almost always wear black. Some people call me the Man in Black. It's a signature clothing trademark I guess.

Humor:

Diverse. I like to make good people laugh. Makes me smile. Ah lik to do funny south'rn accents....

Hobbies & Interests:

Writing, nature walks and hikes, good intelligent conversation, photography, kayaking, exploring, and jumping out of perfectly good airplanes at 14, 000 feet (4, 267 meters) (sky diving).

Travelled:

I've been to different parts of the US (including Maui), Germany, Denmark, Philippines, Canada, Mexico. Some other places on my main list of places to visit include Costa Rica, Thailand, Australia, New Zealand...And a special place or two that I haven't figured out it.

Cultural Adaption:

Very adaptive. I've very multicultural, patient, willing to teach, and willing to learn.

Romance:

Ah! I have done that several times...A quiet cottage in the woods, a resort on the beach, the unique romantic environment of the Sybaris with a private pool and waterfall...Holding, touching, loving the entire time...I've had a couple of incredible experiences...Still looking for that special woman.

Personality:

Multidimensional. I can be very intellectual yet also very soulfull and spiritual. Creative yet very practical. Interesting yet very quiet at times. I am deep.

My Perfect Match is:

I'm not entirely sure as I have not found her yet. She would be intelligent, have a good/great heart, strong in integrity, honesty, and commitment. Have/want a good career and a good family. Has to like me (of course!) and herself (meaning stable). If she would have an inner peace and love within her...

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