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25 Shefford, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 21
Firstly, I want to say sorry to anybody who has taken the time to message me, if I’ve not responded. The truth is that I never anticipated so many people being interested in me, and I just don’t have the time to reply to every message I get! I’m flattered though. Because of that, I’ve been mostly ignoring messages and just reading what people have written about themselves on their profiles. I’ve read that on dating websites 90% of decisions to message other people are based on a person’s profile pictures. In other words, they judge a book by its cover. I’m shallow to an extent, it’s an inevitability of being human. But I find kindness, intelligence, and a thirst for fun so much more attractive. Beauty, as they say, is in the eye of the beholder. ***** We are all searching for happiness. I am no exception. Yet society constrains us with rules and expectations, we are moulded into the citizens of the system. We distract ourselves from the mundane every day, and convince ourselves we are happy. But I am not happy with that. I have this desire burning inside me, to break the chains holding us back - chains that only exist in our minds. I am not a sheep. I will not be a slave to society. I will live freely. So, if you dare take a leap of faith, run through the wilderness with me, feel the air sting your cheeks, climb mountains your hand in mine, breathe the salt of the sea with me, lay under a blanket of stars, chase fireflies in the night with me, watch the sun rise from every corner of the earth, scrunch the sand between your toes with me… find out who you really are with me. ***** In my short time here on Earth, I've done many things I'm proud of and many I'm not. Dwelling on mistakes can send even the strongest of us on the downward spiral. Of that I've been guilty before. But those ghosts which haunt us also push us on. ***** I've not long started studying to become a chartered tax accountant. I'm working full time at an accountancy firm to gain the experience, and of course earn a living. But my passions extend far beyond my job; I love physics, mathematics, computing and philosophy. After I become qualified, I plan to take a physics degree in my own time and develop myself as a programmer. Perhaps it sounds like I haven't decided on one career. And you'd be right, but who ever said we must live a static life hmmm? ^.^
60 Lewisham, London (Greater), United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 28 - 40
58 Huyton, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 45 - 55
I would best describe myself as a typically English gentleman and former dedicated public servant. NOT a typical English/Western tourist. I do not wish to recapture my teenage years. I dislike rudeness, drunkeness or big loud egos. Strength comes from a calm quiet approach. I value patience, courtesy, respect, faithfulness, honesty, sincerity and truthfulness even in the face of rejection or disadvantage. I would simply walk away from people who fail to display those qualities. I would describe myself as fearless in this regard. I have spent 30 years as a Registered Nurse caring for others. I value very highly that same caring nature in other people. I am not easily fooled. I have had my hard lessons and have learned from them. I don't need any more. I have worked with people who have drug and alcohol addiction for many years. It's unlikely someone would be able to fool me with anything new. I would take any attempt to fool me to be a sign of disrespect for me. You may have had to kiss a lot of frogs in the hope of finding your prince, but I am not a frog. I don't want to hop from lily pad to lily pad. I am patient, a good listener, I prefer to listen, and would rather show kindness than control. I am calm and forgiving in nature. I am not the solution to all your problems, but I can be a support when you need help to solve your own difficulties. I have a good imagination, I am constantly curious about the world and the people in it. I enjoy solving problems. I can speak my mind without needing to hurt or impress. I would look for someone who can do the same. Someone who knows the difference between a discussion and an argument. Someone who knows how to agree to disagree but values and respects the opinions of others. I am a good communicator, who uses their communication skills for the happiness and benefit of others. I cannot relate to those who do not try to communicate in this way. I have no religion but would respect those who do as long as they didn't try to push me into theirs. If religion takes priority over people for you, we probably wouldn't get on very well. I value friendship more than activity or excitement. Relationships are built on trust. Building takes time, effort and a will to succeed. I much prefer intimacy to naked sex. Intimacy requires deep trust and communication. I prefer to give than receive but I will only take what is freely given with genuine affection. I never demand anything. I know the difference between fantasy and reality, talking about fantasy doesn't mean it has to happen. I do have a completely open mind. If sex is your work, I do not judge how you make your living or what you needed to do to survive, but I am not your work and never expect to be. I simply wouldn't be interested in that type of interaction. I might be interested in the person underneath. I am also not interested in those who see other human beings as 'business', to be used solely for personal gain. I love children, but more than that I understand another persons child is the most important thing in the world to them. I would never try to replace a parent. I would never intentionally hurt a child and absolutely detest with a passion those who abuse childrens trust. I may or may not want children with a new partner, however if you already have children I would base my decision upon how you treat your own children and the relationship you have with them. I have no outdated views on gender specific roles. I believe the happiest times come when sharing the simplest tasks as a partnership. I do not need a trophy, I prefer not to make public displays of ownership or affection. I do like to have fun. I would describe myself as fit and active, but not 'sporty'. I have no competitive instinct. I think I have a good sense of humour, if a little different to the usual since I like humour coupled with a good imagination and understanding of the world. I like music and love to sing and dance, but I don't like overly loud music or dark crowded places. I drink alcohol rarely and would never be interested in drugs, since I always prefer to remain in complete control of myself around those I may not trust, or who may need my help. I prefer a good intimate restaurant and good conversation to bars and loud 'nightlife'. I would rather go for a walk on a deserted beach than have a crowd of half naked people screaming around me. When choosing clothes, I prefer smart to casual. I like to present myself well, however I tend to be less than impressed by those obsessed with self. I don't want or need a supermodel, diva, or royalty in my life. It is an old cliche I know, but I truly believe beauty is within. Initially I'm looking to learn about you. If trust is built, friendship would naturally follow. If the friendship is deep enough, then I am happy to go where it leads. A really good friend would know, I would move heaven and Earth to make them happy if I could. If it wasn't clear from the above: No sex talk. No pay to play. No trying to take me as a fool. No lady-boys. Email: s1rmunchalot@virginmedia.com WhatsApp:: +44 7871 938 912 KIK: s1rmunchalot
27 Eastbourne, East Sussex, United Kingdom
Seeking: Female 18 - 99