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At the moment I'm finished with school. I have a job I love with brilliant individuals. I'm a gamer and I also enjoy anime, so it'd be nice if I can find someone that enjoys watching anime as well. I'm extremely random and weird. I love trying

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你好 你好嗎 こんにちは、元気ですか。 I am A straight attractive tall dark and handsome athletic 6'6" 235 lbs SBM with a great sense of humor and an open mind, who love life, women, and having fun. Easy on the eyes, and easy to get alone with. You can dial my name to call or text me. I'm in Chicago. Where are you? Let's have fun. YOLO! If you are in Chicago, or visiting Chicago, you can contact me and we can see in we have chemistry or karma. We will know right away. Let's take it from there or see where it goes. I have been learning the Asian Culture over the past year, and enjoy meeting new and interesting people. 拨打我的名字给我打电话 私を呼び出すために私の名前をダイヤル 我的名字是奔 我希望我們能成為朋友 欢迎到芝加哥，我知道伟大的地方。 シカゴに私は素晴らしい場所を知ってようこそ。 コーヒーのために会うことができます。 私の名前はベンです あなたと友達になりたいです。

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I'm 38 and looking to settle down with a someone special. I have family in Europe and have visited almost all of the countries. I'm planning on taking the Transsiberian Express for my next vacation and hopefully meet that someone special along the way.

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Well, I am very loving, caring, and affectionate. I am highly intelligent, good-hearted, and generous with my love. I have a good career in the technology field and perhaps have focused too much on my work in the last few years. I have realized that i have to find a woman to be with. I need that sweetness and kindness in my life. To the ladies who have written me. I will try to write back tomorrow. Thank you for your letters!!!

Hello ladies my name is Derrick. I'm a nice and kind individual who's looking to share what life has to offer. I'm very caring and fun to hang out with. I love to workout (lifting weights), swimming and bike riding. I love long walks and sharing a good conversation etc...

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I am looking for one that can meet me halfway. I am looking for one that will bond with me and be true. Us as you and I before anyone else. I am realistic and well grounded. I am not judgmental but demand the truth always. I enjoy travel and adventure. Love cooking and trying new foods. Intrested contact me.

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Single man who has a lot to offer. I have a good sense of humor. A extremely hard worker who believes in the moto "work hard, play hard". Enjoy spending time at home relaxing watching movies and having a few drinks. Furthermore, enjoy going out to nice dinners, walks,movies and dancing.

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I'm just an honest hard working guy in search of the dream. You know: Beautiful wife, 2.3 children, big house, cars, and all the blessings that come along with it. Family man by nature and avid listener. I'm the type that can careless about the game

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Where do I start... I'm from the United States, that being said one of my greatest desires is traveling. I enjoy being active from playing soccer with my friends to camping, hiking, and skiing. Downtime is good too though, taking time to relax and unwind while watching a movie or sitcom after a long day of work is a must. I will be in Indonesia for 2 weeks in Aug and would like to meet new people.

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I'm a good, decent and kind man looking for someone to start a life with. I work in Chicago, and have lots of friends, but finally realize that I want to meet someone who can share the good and bad in life with. I want children and a family. I want a partner, a lover and a friend. I am easy to talk to, if you look at the gee male. I am hexhand, there I like to write, and have had my writing published. Someday, I hope to write full time, but I still work full time and write part time. This doesn't mean that my nose is always on a book. I live by a great big lake, and spend most of my Summer and Spring somewhere on or in the lake. :) I am not perfect-looking, but think I am attractive because of my approach to life: I treat all people as I find them. If they are jerks, I ignore them. If they are intelligent, have emotional and intellectual depth to them, I hang around with them. My friends are good, honest, and usually very talented people. I am a 'man' and not a 'guy'. A guy thinks with the Little Head (below the belt), while a 'man' makes his decisions with the Big Head (above the neck). This doesn't mean that I don't get urges; it means that I know how to address them appropriately and respectfully. My pleasure is not worth someone else's pain I am generous, kind and sometimes a big kid at heart. I like animals and little kids. I deeply believe in family and am interested in starting one with someone I meet here, kids being an eventuality, not a possibility. If you do not want kids, I am not the man for you. I am a one-woman man; its just too exhausting to give my love and attention to more than one woman. If I am with you, then you get all of my attention, but I am not clingy or jealous. Jealousy is for people who don't like themselves enough to trust that their partner loves them for the right reasons.

I'm new to Chicago, i've been living here for 4 years now from the south. i love it here so diverse and so much to do, i am very outgoing and adventurous, i love trying to new things and exploring new things as well. i'm a athlete so i love to play sports most of all of them and i like to workout as well, feels good to work out and staying fit for sure. i love going to ballets, Broadway shows, basketball and football games, going to the pool hall, and i love watching movies, museums, tours, paintball i'm up for almost everything. I'm very versatile so im up for anything you bring my way. I'm always watching 190 north and metro mix to try out the new spots.

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I am an opened minded person who likes to enjoy life and try new things, I love going to new places and traveling around the world because, you never know what your going to see or who your going to meet. My friends would say I am a curious person with a sense of humor. I love to make people laugh and listen to their side of the story. when I am free I love to workout at the Gym, going to the movies with friends. When I am at home I like to read a good book and play with my cat.

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I'm an open-minded guy who loves other cultures and languages. I love movies, world music and taking long walks on beautiful, sunny days. I admit that I don't know much about Indonesia other than what I read in John Perkins' "Economic Hitman", and that it at one time had the largest population of Muslims in the world, but that's why I'd like to learn more. I read that Christine Hakim made a great 5 part documentary on Indonesian culture that I'd like to see. Also, I practice martial arts so when I found out about silat, I became even more interested in Indonesia. 

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I am a man looking for a good woman, considering living in a new country but can work virtually in my current job. Exploring what the world has to offer. I like to travel, I am very busy so looking to have a good work life balance if possible.

Just your normal hard working guy, looking for that lady who wants no drama, no hassle, and who likes that she doesn't have to train me be a gentleman,, it's already done :).. Yes, I'm the good guy all the ladies says they want, yet go for the bad boy they can never change... U decide U control your fate :)

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At 60, I am tired of being lonely: I enjoy a wide range of activities, from camping to an evening out on the town -- but none are really fun without someone to share them with. Mostly, I am a home body, enjoying reading, watching TV and movies, along with having several hobbies. I would still like to have a family, but this is not a "deal breaker." My sense of humor is active, and varies from silly to sarcastic: I also enjoy puns and other play-on-words humor.

I am a banking professional living in chicago. Divorced. looking forward to meet a good looking indonesian girl who can share some good times with me . I respect the individuality and freedom of women and would love to meet someone who has an independent attitude.

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Tall dark handsome well traveled and cultured speak fluent French and not afraid to try new and different things love good wholesome food and the friendship of genuine people ladies I am very serious about finding a mate and I don't play games so if you're really interested let's not play games.

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The IM thing does not work for me so please do not be upset if I do not get your IM. Feel free to send a regular message though! I am a thinker and a dreamer first and foremost. If you follow the Myers-Briggs personality types I am an INTJ. This means I tend to analyze everything, look for patterns in the world, and try to solve problems. I try to be logical, pragmatic and a long term planner. Being introverted, I am shy but once I get to know people I open up. At work I deal with computers and programmers, so I guess one could call me a professional geek. I am successful in my professional life where I am respected as a knowledgeable expert in my area. I have a quirky sense of humor and love off beat things like Mystery Science Theater 3000, Mega64, and The Mighty Boosh. Besides learning and teaching, I also love telling stories (fictional and not so fictional), conversation over coffee, concerts, and tabletop RPGs. I'm a rather low key person and not really into the bar scene. I am probably not like many Westerners in that I still believe in many of the traditional values like etiquette, "waiting until marriage," and chivalry. I try to live a life of honesty and integrity. I may not be a knight in shining armor (maybe a knight in tarnished armor?) but I try to help when I can. I have been successful in all my life goals so far except for one... finding that special someone to spend the rest of our lives together. I am not here to "buy a bride" or have a one night fling on vacation. I wish to find someone that can be a friend and after time, maybe something more. I am not concerned about distance. The space that divides two people is an illusion that can be overcome.

Thanks for stopping by! Writing an introduction to myself is a tough assignment. The temptation to elaborate is ever present, but my natural tendancy is towards modesty. So, I'll try my best to aim somewhere between the extremes. My faith, my values, and my principles are central to who I am. Also significant to me are my family and my friends. I am very well educated, successful in my profession, and possess a strong creative sense which nicely balances my analytical mind. I have a variety of interests, but I find that the list never remains static and is happily influenced by the interests of others. I do enjoy the usual things: travel, conversation, dining out, movies, theatre, music, window shopping, people watching, sunrises and sunsets. I enjoy evenings out as well as quiet moments at home. At times I can be quite active and adventurous, and at other times more tranquil and reflective. I'm generally open to trying new things, and always appreciate the opportunity to broaden my horizons. I agree with that sage who once said: "it is a day wasted unless you've laughed, unless you've learned something new, and unless you've found something or someone new to love". I regard myself to be an honest, communicative, reliable, caring person who is sometimes playful, sometimes serious, but always genuine.