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matthew

37 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female

Body style: Full Figured

hello im matthew. just a traveler seeking the light and enlightenment in these interesting times. I consider myself a sensitive, intelligent ,person who who tries above all to remain honest. I'm straight forward person in many ways. Mostly I am quiet

Justin

39 • Anchorage, Alaska, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Body style: Full Figured

Rich American looking for Filipina Bride

Full time government supervisor. 6' 3" very tall. I am a young and successfully executive with a six figure annual salary. Never been married, don't have any kids, don't smoke, drink, or do drugs. I have my own house and new cars. Enjoy cheesy

raoul

66 • Haverhill, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking: Female 27 - 38

Body style: Full Figured

too nice to be forgotten

attending college to help in medical field, love learning,no drama, unconditional,nonjudgemental, Please NEVER lie, to me,I will always be honest,having kids are ok, just be real, i've been lied to,robbed, and used so I am a bit jaded but still a rom

GEORGE

52 • Jacksonville, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

Body style: Full Figured

A loving, loyal and strong man...

I am a man who is self-confident but knows his limitations. I am letting God work in my life to make me the man he wants me to be. I know if I let him transform me, I know I will be the man my future wife will want. I am the kind of person who wants

Carlos

55 • Round Rock, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 29 - 47

Body style: Full Figured

Hope less romantic

Affectionate, intimacy, PDA, road trips, surprises, music, dancing, last minute plans, open mind, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, casual, sense of humor about yourself, awareness. Looking for a relations

Billy

77 • Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 60

Body style: Full Figured

I will never send you money-I have sent too much.

I HAVE SEEN BEAUTIFUL SCAMMERS ON THIS SITE. YOU WILL NOT GET MONEY FROM ME NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR STORY OR HOW BEAUTIFUL AND SEXY YOUR PICTURES. . I DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD AND DO NOT WANT CHILDREN AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE. STILL WOMEN TRY TO GET MONEY. IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. TRUST ME, NO MONEY. I am poor and a struggling artist. Poor means struggling to survive. I am not the rich American who you are looking for. I am an artistic filmmaker who has won 19 film festivals and had my stuff shown in 17 countries. Emmy nominated. Known for dealing with human problems. Both funny and known for being hard to deal with by some. An unconventional man who does not try to be liked others and does not follow the herd. I hold three college degrees, was Emmy nominated. No MONEY will ever flow from me to Asia in any form, ever. I have been burned by you gals. Don't waste our time. I'm dumb but I do learn. I cannot understand how you gals jump from never having exchanged an e-mail to talking about being together for the rest of your life within a sentence. I’m interested in knowing someone real, real well and caring about them a lot before I even want to discuss living together. Asian girls want to get married much too fast for me. Looking at someone’s photo and then getting married is way before the wave. Getting married means that I like you better than any other girl who I have ever met. That will not happen from a photo. Meeting in person might be the beginning of a real relationship, but nothing real can happen until you meet for real. Nothing will ever happen on line except a desire to meet someone. I WILL NOT PAY YOUR WAY HERE, TRUST ME ON THIS. NO PIX NO TALK

Robert

63 • Mesa, Arizona, United States

Seeking: Female 29 - 46

Body style: Full Figured

Looking for ever lasting love and romance.

First I must tell you that I have had a vasectomy in 1992 and it cannot be reversed. If you are wanting to have children, than I am not the right man for you. I am honest and forthright and your happiness is of most importance. I am at [ heelan at rocket mail . com ]. I understand that for most women motherhood is the most gratifying gift God can give. I do hope to hear from you, but if I do not I understand and wish you all the best. I am widowed after 28 years of marriage. I loved my wife with all my heart and took care of her for many years during her illness. She died October 3, 2007. I have never cheated or was abusive, I believe in honoring my wedding vows always, which was easy for me as cheating is NOT in my nature. It is now time to start living again. First off, more than anything, I am told I listen well. I do not try to solve problems or offer advice, but simply listen (unless asked). I always listen no matter what the subject is - I will give time and support. I believe that is just one way to show my partner that I love her. It is the little things you do for her that will let her know she is truly loved. Surprise her with something small – bring home take-out food without being asked. A kiss when they least expect it. Flowers for no reason. Hold her hand in public, and in private. Little surprises like that can mean much more than words. Also, I am here to pamper and care for you. I will light a candle every once in a while, even when the power does not go out. When you wake up at 3 A.M. filled with worry, I will rub your back, hold your hand and says things will look better in the light of day. Then I will not fall asleep until you do. I will tell you I love you. While actions may speak louder than words, words hold their own special power. This and more is what I have to offer. - from there everything just gets better I love to be romantic. You marry for love or at least you should. I believe the most important factor is being a good lover. But being an exceptional lover starts with communication, which does not necessarily have to be verbal, than mastering the exquisite pleasure of touch, discovering each other in the process. I have learned if I make my mate happy --My life will be happy - It does go both ways - I have also learned to adjust and conform - and be patient - many things come your way with the proper timing or approach. As far as activities and hobbies, I LOVE FAMILY I do have 3 children, Megan - born 1986, Blake - born 1989 and Rachel - born 1991. They will not need or demand time from you, only kindness. I can offer you a wonderful home. My hobbies are – first is my family – I love family activities, going out for dinner, visiting parks and nature centers, and attending movies and plays. Second, I enjoy sports, both playing and watching. I also like to go ATVing. My most favorite hobby is creation of romantic moments for the woman I love.

John

77 • Cincinnati, Ohio, United States

Seeking: Female 32 - 49

Body style: Full Figured

jad

A family-centered person. I have 2 goals 1) to be married again, and 2) to purchase a car for touring. Am serious about loyalty - my wife and I were loyal to each other to the end of her life. I was married for 40 years - my wife died of lung canc

Mozzay

50 • New Orleans, Louisiana, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 40

Body style: Full Figured

Being Friends is most Important to me.

Arguing is not my style. I don't hit women so if you like thugs I'm NOT your man. I am transitioning into single life. I have been married for 21 years and it never became what it could have been. If you don't marry a believer there is very little

Kiehl

63 • Jacksonville, North Carolina, United States

Seeking: Female 38 - 58

Body style: Full Figured

Hello , I’m looking for Friends- Will see? I’m 63

I’m 63, Looking for Real. I’m Separated From Wife 1 Year 2 Months . If You’re not Varified on Profile ?, Probably will not Chat? I’m interested in an LTR but not Marriage.(married 2?Times. ) if You object to my profile Content- just move on. Moral

Chris

71 • Fort Myers, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 20 - 35

Body style: Full Figured

lets live life

Looking for someone who wants to enjoy life and the things it brings. I would like to fine someone who likes motorcycles;and the ocean; I also like to scuba dive and go to the parks like disney. I live in Florida. I am loyal and good to those who are

Buddy

61 • Mentor, Ohio, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 60

Body style: Full Figured

I'm looking for a woman who is romantic and loving

I am an easy going man. Respectful, caring, loving, ambitious and I have a very good sense of humor. I don't smoke or drink alcohol. I am that type of person who always tries to make people laugh. I always make sure to share the little that I have wi

David

55 • Richmond, Indiana, United States

Seeking: Female 41 - 49

Body style: Full Figured

Real Love

I'm a Christian man who is an ordained deacon. I believe in being honest and loyal. I love having a close relationship and am willing to share all of my hopes and dreams. I enjoy Church, Sports, Dinner Theatres, Binge watching TV shows on streamin

Jim

55 • Fresno, California, United States

Seeking: Female

Body style: Full Figured

Communication, Honesty, Respect, and Love

I am a white American male in his 50’s. I am serious with a sense of humor. I always try look at life and people positively. I try not to take life too seriously. I am currently working on my divorce which should be final by August 2020. I had m

Terence

28 • Fremont, California, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 26

Body style: Full Figured

To the wild, wild West

I tend to take myself too seriously at first. But once we understand each other's sense of humor, I love to have fun! I am currently atheist/agnostic, but I was raised very religiously and appreciate spirituality and know the King James Bible very

Jeff

58 • Tyler, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 40 - 56

Body style: Full Figured

Just a BIG cuddly bear

I am a VERY passionate affectionate intimate sexual sensual honest loyal hard working and respectful man... I love to spend time with my family and friends, anything that has to do with water, live music venue's, working on older model cars, watching

chuck

52 • Seattle, Washington, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

Body style: Full Figured

Hoping to find a great gal!

Live in the beautiful Pacific Northwest (USA). Love to joke around and have fun. Kind, trustworthy and responsible. Easy to get along with. Definitely lean towards the "Alpha Male" side of the spectrum. Fairly conservative and traditional. I am not a small man. Broad shouldered and strong (been told I can look intimidating, which I'm not). I only drink light beer.

Keith

46 • The Woodlands, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 22 - 39

Body style: Full Figured

Seeing what is out there

Well I am pretty laid back. I love the beach and I love to travel. I have two kids and I am open to having more someday. I tend to work to much but I am hoping to slow down soon. I would love to meet someone and have them show me around the Philippin

Larry

52 • Phoenix, Arizona, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 47

Body style: Full Figured

Looking for that wonderful woman

I'm a single father of one child, a boy of 21 years old , enjoy the outdoors , going camping , playing softball ,would like to spending time at home with a special lady , if she is out there ? Going out to dinner & the movies, or just a nice quiet time at home , with a movie.

Chad

37 • San Antonio, Texas, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 27

Body style: Full Figured

Please read my profile carefully.

Please read my profile carefully. I'm providing a lot of detail so we can more easily understand how compatible we are. Short version: seeking a sweet, submissive, smart, sexy spouse. Long version: I am here to find a wife. I'd love to make new friends as well--feel free to write me--but the main reason I'm here is to find that one woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I am cautious. I want to get to know the right person very well before getting married. It could take months or even a year or more for me to be ready, to have the money and vacation days, to fly around to the other side of the world to meet you. Be patient. Let's get to know each other thoroughly through chat, emails, video and voice calls so we know we are right for each other. I want to have children and to raise them well. I want to marry the right woman, a woman who will be a good wife and a good mate. I am intelligent. I was accepted into Mensa, the high IQ society. I am not a rocket scientist, but I enjoy intelligent conversation, and I want intelligent children. My wife needs to be of above average intelligence. She should have a medium or dark skin tone, to help balance out my fair-skinned genes. I am agnostic. I was raised as a conservative Christian, but have come to believe that it is impossible to say what religion, if any, is correct. I try to be open minded. An agnostic woman would be best, or Christian. Other religions may be acceptable as long as she is not very religious. She must be kind, sweet, tender-hearted. There is no sexier trait a woman can have than a loving heart. She should be a good communicator. I do not mean that she has to be completely fluent in English, although that is nice. I mean that she should be patient, open, a good listener. She should be easy to talk to. We should be able to talk about anything or everything and to work out problems by discussing them frankly with each other. She must be absolutely honest, even when she thinks it is not what I want to hear. Of course she should be polite--there's no need to deliberately say hurtful things--but honesty and integrity are vital. I can't accept a woman who lies, tricks or deceives. In that vein, I know there are a lot of fakes and scammers online. I will NOT send you money. Talk to me if you are looking for a relationship, not cash. I am physically affectionate. I like to hold the girl, to cuddle her, kiss her, play with her hair. You should enjoy such affection. I prefer to do the touching, not be the one being touched. I like many things: girls with long hair, girls in high heels. Girls with sweet voices that are pleasant to listen to when she talks or sings. Girls that like to cook. What about me? Let's see. My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTJ. My top 5 Strengthsfinder results are Ideation, Input, Futuristic, Individualization, Analytical. I have a quirky sense of humor. I tend to have big dreams. I like to analyze things or make detailed plans. I enjoy being in charge. I want to change the world. I have good traits and bad traits. I am intelligent, tall and--I like to think--in overall good health. I am a software engineer, which is good work. I try to be intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious. I own my own house. I am a confident leader and public speaker. Many women think my deep voice is sexy. I am committed to saving my virginity for marriage. I am creative and analytical. I am affectionate. I like to think I am more emotionally mature than many people, but I'm far from perfect. I believe in open, honest communication. I like to think I am gentle, kind and patient with women. I do not commit crimes. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke. I do not drink. I do not swear. I like cats. I am second degree black belt in the martial art of Tae Kwan Do. I believe that a relationship takes work. That a relationship is a commitment for man and woman to work hard at loving each other. Nothing is ever perfect and there are always obstacles. But if we work together, we can have a love that lasts a lifetime. I have many faults as well. I am pale-skinned and freckled, so pale it is impossible for me to tan. Many consider that unattractive. I am young, but already getting some gray hairs. I am quite nearsighted, and need my glasses to do just about anything. I am overweight, but I have made significant changes in my lifestyle to eat and drink better and exercise more, so I expect to get fitter soon. I have made a number of mistakes in my life. My financial situation is not as great as it should be, although I have been improving it substantially in 2015 and expect to do even better in 2016. I'm not a fan of dogs. I don't always get things done as soon as I would like. I am not very close to my family, although I do talk to and see them occasionally. Sometimes I eat unhealthy foods. I find it difficult to relate to most Americans. I can be shy and introverted, often preferring to be alone. Many women do not find my looks or personality attractive. I can have difficulties managing my time for maximum productivity. I think about sexual matters a lot and discuss them too much for the taste of some women. I share these things to avoid surprises, to help you better know if you would enjoy being with me. My goals in life? I will continue to work as a software engineer. I will work off my credit card debt and save up money. I will work on my business goals. I have many business plans. Right now, I want to work on a website to teach people public speaking skills and to make that profitable enough that I can leave my day job and devote more time to business. Then I will work on more businesses. I want to marry and have kids once I am in a good financial position. I want to move somewhere--I don't know where, I need to figure out where in the US I most want to live--and build my dream house and have children and profitable businesses there. You might wonder: why do I want to look overseas for a wife? It's not just because I've had poor luck with American women. America's immigration laws are overly strict. It is hard to get into the US. The best way is to marry an American. More foreign women in the US means more cultural diversity, more genetic diversity. It means Americans will better understand the world around them. For women from poor countries, it is a way to live in a richer country and to raise children in a richer place. Why do I want to marry an Asian girl? Because I think they are the most beautiful in the world. 3 But of course, if I find the perfect woman for me, race is not as important. What would our life be like together? There are many possibilities. Perhaps we would... - cuddle on the couch and watch a movie - cook dinner together, a new healthy recipe - try a new sport together - play a board game together, like Risk or something less common - go to professional meetings where I would give speeches - discuss business ideas together - set aside time to spend one on one with each other, even after having children, and just work on us - work in the same room on our own projects on our own computers - practice self-defense - read aloud for each other - take a walk in the woods - discuss ideas from a thought-provoking book with each other - have many kinky adventures! I've mentioned sexual matters a few times now. That requires explanation. I want a nice girl. I want a girl that doesn't smoke or drink or swear. A girl that is kind and thoughtful. A girl that would be a great wife and a great mother. A girl I could proudly introduce to my family. ...but... She also needs to be sexually adventurous. kinky. submissive. It's hard to find a girl that is both! Now, please don't be scared. Perhaps you don't know much about sex. That's fine. Many American women, even those that have sex regularly, have much to learn and believe in too many myths and misconceptions. And we don't have to discuss sex all the time. But it is important to know that we are compatible and could be happy together. And remember, I am saving my virginity for marriage. I do sexual activities, but will not do the actual act of intercourse until then. Another disclaimer. You don't have to love all these things. You don't have to be experienced in all these things. All I ask is that you are open minded. Perhaps you are curious. Perhaps you are willing to try anything once. Perhaps you just say "I don't know if I like it or not--let's explore this more and see what happens." That's fine. You just need to be willing to consider it. I am into BDSM. If you've read or watched 50 Shades of Gray, that's one type of a BDSM relationship. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sado-Masochism. It's a catch-all term for many kinks, many alternative sexual activities. I enjoy submissive women. Oh, it's great if she's intelligent, a great life partner, if she's a capable women or a hard working professional. But she should enjoy the idea of obeying her man, of letting him take charge and make decisions. It should make her happy to make him happy. This sort of girl is often frustrated by not knowing what to do to make people happy. It's much easier if she is just told, and then she happily tries to please people. I enjoy women tied up (Bondage). I think this is very sexy. The purpose is not to hurt the woman; many women love it, and it can be quite gentle. It's just a way to add variety and make sexual activities more exciting. I enjoy many other kinks as well. Hypnosis, tickling, role play--if you are interested we can discuss a variety of kinks. But the right sort of girl gets excited at the thought of her man deciding where to take her on a date and what she should wear. Or for him to grab her, press her against the wall and kiss her passionately. Or for him to tie her to the bed and lay a trail of kisses up and down her body. Or for him to grab her, put her over his shoulder, slap her bottom and tell her that she belongs to him. I prefer a girl who is bisexual and polyamorous. That is, a girl open to the idea of kissing or playing with another girl, or us both together playing with another girl. Again, you don't have to be an expert, or even be certain that you like it. You just need to be open to the idea of discussing or exploring it to better understand if it's for you or not. There you have it. Now you know far more about me than most people do! Thank you for reading. I appreciate your attention to detail. I look forward to getting to know you better and to help you better understand me. If you've read this and are intrigued, please help me make sure that I do not miss your message, that you stand out from others so I am sure to notice you and talk to you first. Send me a message with the subject line "Please tell me more, Sir?". Tell me more about yourself. It doesn't have to be as long as this--but help me get to know you as a person, to understand what makes you the special angel that you are. :)

carl

58 • New Bedford, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking: Female 25 - 60

Body style: Full Figured

Hi..

I love myself, I have confidence, love animals, music it`s my bloodline. Play video games, walking the dog, going to the Day Care Center, going to the mall once a month. Go to church as often as I can, I love Father God And His Son Jesus The Most, like to cook, etc.

alameen

45 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 23 - 35

Body style: Full Figured

Im studying know in Egypt arabic and islam.

Asalaamu Alayki My name is Alameen i'am from U.S.A from New York City .I Been a muslim for 17 years i study in Yemen Arabic and also Qur'an And Ahadth yes i speak arabic some what mashallah . I in egypt know studying islam and arabic. My Frother is Native america Red indian and my mother is Half native and Afro American.so tell me about you .Can i see more pic of you inshalluh.P.S inshallah you are my sister in islam so we will work with one another.you can hit me up at and donot forget what Allah said in the Quran come and enjoin upon BIRR WAT TAQWA LA WA ITHNEE WA ODWAAN that mean enjoin to one another on good not the bad .

Robert

60 • San Francisco, California, United States

Seeking: Female 24 - 44

Body style: Full Figured

What we can build together, no one can take away

A wise man once said that 'The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon, but that we wait so long to begin.' I am long past the time for beginning the next chapter in my life. I am the eldest of 4 children. I have worked with computers for most of my life. I am warm friendly and I enjoy helping others. I am a big guy, who is warm and give warm hugs. Not too outspoken, but I do think a lot about politics and society and enjoy chatting about those things. I also love to travel and experience new ways of looking life , Some people are ok at lots of things and can muddle through along in life. I am very good at some things and not good at others. I can make life very pleasant for the right lady, and for me, a partner whose strengths complement mine will make all the difference! Could that be you?

Albert

55 • Somerville, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 80

Body style: Full Figured

i like to meet someone who is romantic ,sweet

i am a musician i work in the music business as a performer singer guitar player ,or guitar player back up, for other artist.i work in the music studio recording industry , also as guitar instructor. i am a single guy , I NEVER BEEN MARRIED BEFORE, ,i am a very romantic person an that sweetness in me is really natural I AM LOOKING A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP AND with a nice humble lady , no matter age,body size,appearance . i love listening love songs, i am a natural lover, i am a home body ,and i love tidy things in my app.

Durand

56 • Grand Junction, Colorado, United States

Seeking: Female 26 - 42

Body style: Full Figured

Looking for a pretty women to live my life out!

I am a retired bull rider in the rodeo. .I got beet up pretty good but working on that with surgery. it is going well. I would like to love again! I am not looking here any more. Women here always want to break up to the smallest things. I want you! Will you Love you! Will you do the same?

Michael

32 • Napa, California, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 40

Body style: Full Figured

Lookin4Honest Girl 4 And Move to USA ASAP

Bay Area native since birth Graphic Designer by trade. I try to live life to its fullest extent. I enjoy being outdoors and and going to new places.Family is important to me and should be to you also. If you want to know anything just Ask. .Michaelfp

BRYAN

49 • West Palm Beach, Florida, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 37

Body style: Full Figured

B MAN

I MOVED HERE TO FLORIDA THREE YEARS AGO FORM NORTH CAROLINA I LIKE THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE GOING TO THE BEACH HANGING OUT WITH MY FRIENDS WORKING ON MY CARS AND SOMETIMES STAYING HOME AND JUST WATCH A GOOD SCARY MOVIE WITH SPECIAL SOMEONE

Michael

61 • Jamestown, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 29 - 48

Body style: Full Figured

Homest ,Trustworthy,and Faithful

As Said Above Honest, Trustworthy, and Faithful .I like to go to Dinner Come Home and Sit Under the Stars with Someone Special on a Warm Night or Cuddle Up and Watch a Movie or T.V. and Make Love .I do like going to sporting Events . When I Can Afford Them with my Lady like: American Football, Hockey , Car Racing . I'm No Sugar Daddy nor Rich

JEAN

63 • New York, New York, United States

Seeking: Female 31 - 50

Body style: Full Figured

In the pursuit of love and happines

I am a very friendly,honest and good man who is looking for the love of my live. I want a good and sincere friend who wants deep and sincere friendship leading to lasting love. I would like to have fidelity,sharing and reciprocity. I do not want some

Gene

62 • Ridgecrest, California, United States

Seeking: Female 24 - 44

Body style: Full Figured

Friends First...

"Leaders don't measure their success on achievements or wealth, but on how in the face of lost or adversity, they exceed their own expectations and are considered great". I wrote these words because they reflect my life". Success should only be measured, by the individual and not by society and I believe each one of us has a purpose in life. A purpose to exceed our own individual expectation and to appreciate what God has given us. And to me that's life. Now with everything is said and done I guess I should tell you a little more about myself. First of all, I'm a easy going guy who enjoy going to dinner, movies, shows, night clubs (Jazz, R&B, & Strip Club) nude beaches, and travel.

Samir

73 • Schaumburg, Illinois, United States

Seeking: Female 35 - 50

Body style: Full Figured

ARE YOU READY

Are you ready to get commited in a long relation could end in marriage ,are you understanding and forgiven .are you willing to love without condition and be loved the same way,are you spiritual and dont care about material thing . I am all of the

malucci

61 • Richmond, Virginia, United States

Seeking: Female 30 - 50

Body style: Full Figured

love is something you live for.

A Godly man seeking.that God fearing woman for marriage

rajih

62 • Parma, Ohio, United States

Seeking: Female

Body style: Full Figured

Honest Muslim

Hard working loving your best friend devoted Muslim

Will

41 • Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking: Female 27 - 33

Body style: Full Figured

California boy

Born in Brazil Raised in California College at U.C Berkeley (Engineering) Graduate school at USC (MBA)

Ivan

67 • Trenton, New Jersey, United States

Seeking: Female 18 - 51

Body style: Full Figured

I like Thai ladies

I lived in Thailand for a few years. Not anymore

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