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Paul is from United States

Paul (58)

Looking for my last first date Provo, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 62 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Hello. I am a funny, romantic, single, available man looking for that special lady. I can cook, laugh, love the beach, and am faithful and honest. I don't speak any French. And I am a standard member, so i can't read messages from other standard members.

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Billy is from United States

Billy (73)

I will never send you money-I hav... Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I HAVE SEEN BEAUTIFUL SCAMMERS ON THIS SITE. YOU WILL NOT GET MONEY FROM ME NO MATTER HOW GOOD YOUR STORY OR HOW BEAUTIFUL AND SEXY YOUR PICTURES. . I DO NOT BELIEVE IN GOD AND DO NOT WANT CHILDREN AT THIS POINT IN MY LIFE. STILL WOMEN TRY TO GET MONEY. IT'S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. TRUST ME, NO MONEY. I am poor and a struggling artist. Poor means struggling to survive. I am not the rich American who you are looking for. I am an artistic filmmaker who has won 19 film festivals and had my stuff shown in 17 countries. Emmy nominated. Known for dealing with human problems. Both funny and known for being hard to deal with by some. An unconventional man who does not try to be liked others and does not follow the herd. I hold three college degrees, was Emmy nominated. No MONEY will ever flow from me to Asia in any form, ever. I have been burned by you gals. Don't waste our time. I'm dumb but I do learn. I cannot understand how you gals jump from never having exchanged an e-mail to talking about being together for the rest of your life within a sentence. I’m interested in knowing someone real, real well and caring about them a lot before I even want to discuss living together. Asian girls want to get married much too fast for me. Looking at someone’s photo and then getting married is way before the wave. Getting married means that I like you better than any other girl who I have ever met. That will not happen from a photo. Meeting in person might be the beginning of a real relationship, but nothing real can happen until you meet for real. Nothing will ever happen on line except a desire to meet someone. I WILL NOT PAY YOUR WAY HERE, TRUST ME ON THIS. NO PIX NO TALK

coolie is from United States

coolie (49)

Just looking Macon, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 43 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I am pretty hard working and easygoing person; I love to laugh and enjoy others who do as well. I like to think of myself as a thoughtful, genuine, and funny person. I like to learn about new things and expose myself to all types of activities and interests. I love being outside.

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Keith is from United States

Keith (43)

Seeing what is out there The Woodlands, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 39 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Well I am pretty laid back. I love the beach and I love to travel. I have two kids and I am open to having more someday. I tend to work to much but I am hoping to slow down soon. I would love to meet someone and have them show me around the Philippin

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Larry is from United States

Larry (49)

Looking for that wonderful woman Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 47 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I'm a single father of one child, a boy of 21 years old , enjoy the outdoors , going camping , playing softball ,would like to spending time at home with a special lady , if she is out there ? Going out to dinner & the movies, or just a nice quiet time at home , with a movie.

Chad is from United States

Chad (34)

Please read my profile carefully. San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 27 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Please read my profile carefully. I'm providing a lot of detail so we can more easily understand how compatible we are. Short version: seeking a sweet, submissive, smart, sexy spouse. Long version: I am here to find a wife. I'd love to make new friends as well--feel free to write me--but the main reason I'm here is to find that one woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I am cautious. I want to get to know the right person very well before getting married. It could take months or even a year or more for me to be ready, to have the money and vacation days, to fly around to the other side of the world to meet you. Be patient. Let's get to know each other thoroughly through chat, emails, video and voice calls so we know we are right for each other. I want to have children and to raise them well. I want to marry the right woman, a woman who will be a good wife and a good mate. I am intelligent. I was accepted into Mensa, the high IQ society. I am not a rocket scientist, but I enjoy intelligent conversation, and I want intelligent children. My wife needs to be of above average intelligence. She should have a medium or dark skin tone, to help balance out my fair-skinned genes. I am agnostic. I was raised as a conservative Christian, but have come to believe that it is impossible to say what religion, if any, is correct. I try to be open minded. An agnostic woman would be best, or Christian. Other religions may be acceptable as long as she is not very religious. She must be kind, sweet, tender-hearted. There is no sexier trait a woman can have than a loving heart. She should be a good communicator. I do not mean that she has to be completely fluent in English, although that is nice. I mean that she should be patient, open, a good listener. She should be easy to talk to. We should be able to talk about anything or everything and to work out problems by discussing them frankly with each other. She must be absolutely honest, even when she thinks it is not what I want to hear. Of course she should be polite--there's no need to deliberately say hurtful things--but honesty and integrity are vital. I can't accept a woman who lies, tricks or deceives. In that vein, I know there are a lot of fakes and scammers online. I will NOT send you money. Talk to me if you are looking for a relationship, not cash. I am physically affectionate. I like to hold the girl, to cuddle her, kiss her, play with her hair. You should enjoy such affection. I prefer to do the touching, not be the one being touched. I like many things: girls with long hair, girls in high heels. Girls with sweet voices that are pleasant to listen to when she talks or sings. Girls that like to cook. What about me? Let's see. My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTJ. My top 5 Strengthsfinder results are Ideation, Input, Futuristic, Individualization, Analytical. I have a quirky sense of humor. I tend to have big dreams. I like to analyze things or make detailed plans. I enjoy being in charge. I want to change the world. I have good traits and bad traits. I am intelligent, tall and--I like to think--in overall good health. I am a software engineer, which is good work. I try to be intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious. I own my own house. I am a confident leader and public speaker. Many women think my deep voice is sexy. I am committed to saving my virginity for marriage. I am creative and analytical. I am affectionate. I like to think I am more emotionally mature than many people, but I'm far from perfect. I believe in open, honest communication. I like to think I am gentle, kind and patient with women. I do not commit crimes. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke. I do not drink. I do not swear. I like cats. I am second degree black belt in the martial art of Tae Kwan Do. I believe that a relationship takes work. That a relationship is a commitment for man and woman to work hard at loving each other. Nothing is ever perfect and there are always obstacles. But if we work together, we can have a love that lasts a lifetime. I have many faults as well. I am pale-skinned and freckled, so pale it is impossible for me to tan. Many consider that unattractive. I am young, but already getting some gray hairs. I am quite nearsighted, and need my glasses to do just about anything. I am overweight, but I have made significant changes in my lifestyle to eat and drink better and exercise more, so I expect to get fitter soon. I have made a number of mistakes in my life. My financial situation is not as great as it should be, although I have been improving it substantially in 2015 and expect to do even better in 2016. I'm not a fan of dogs. I don't always get things done as soon as I would like. I am not very close to my family, although I do talk to and see them occasionally. Sometimes I eat unhealthy foods. I find it difficult to relate to most Americans. I can be shy and introverted, often preferring to be alone. Many women do not find my looks or personality attractive. I can have difficulties managing my time for maximum productivity. I think about sexual matters a lot and discuss them too much for the taste of some women. I share these things to avoid surprises, to help you better know if you would enjoy being with me. My goals in life? I will continue to work as a software engineer. I will work off my credit card debt and save up money. I will work on my business goals. I have many business plans. Right now, I want to work on a website to teach people public speaking skills and to make that profitable enough that I can leave my day job and devote more time to business. Then I will work on more businesses. I want to marry and have kids once I am in a good financial position. I want to move somewhere--I don't know where, I need to figure out where in the US I most want to live--and build my dream house and have children and profitable businesses there. You might wonder: why do I want to look overseas for a wife? It's not just because I've had poor luck with American women. America's immigration laws are overly strict. It is hard to get into the US. The best way is to marry an American. More foreign women in the US means more cultural diversity, more genetic diversity. It means Americans will better understand the world around them. For women from poor countries, it is a way to live in a richer country and to raise children in a richer place. Why do I want to marry an Asian girl? Because I think they are the most beautiful in the world. 3 But of course, if I find the perfect woman for me, race is not as important. What would our life be like together? There are many possibilities. Perhaps we would... - cuddle on the couch and watch a movie - cook dinner together, a new healthy recipe - try a new sport together - play a board game together, like Risk or something less common - go to professional meetings where I would give speeches - discuss business ideas together - set aside time to spend one on one with each other, even after having children, and just work on us - work in the same room on our own projects on our own computers - practice self-defense - read aloud for each other - take a walk in the woods - discuss ideas from a thought-provoking book with each other - have many kinky adventures! I've mentioned sexual matters a few times now. That requires explanation. I want a nice girl. I want a girl that doesn't smoke or drink or swear. A girl that is kind and thoughtful. A girl that would be a great wife and a great mother. A girl I could proudly introduce to my family. ...but... She also needs to be sexually adventurous. kinky. submissive. It's hard to find a girl that is both! Now, please don't be scared. Perhaps you don't know much about sex. That's fine. Many American women, even those that have sex regularly, have much to learn and believe in too many myths and misconceptions. And we don't have to discuss sex all the time. But it is important to know that we are compatible and could be happy together. And remember, I am saving my virginity for marriage. I do sexual activities, but will not do the actual act of intercourse until then. Another disclaimer. You don't have to love all these things. You don't have to be experienced in all these things. All I ask is that you are open minded. Perhaps you are curious. Perhaps you are willing to try anything once. Perhaps you just say "I don't know if I like it or not--let's explore this more and see what happens." That's fine. You just need to be willing to consider it. I am into BDSM. If you've read or watched 50 Shades of Gray, that's one type of a BDSM relationship. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sado-Masochism. It's a catch-all term for many kinks, many alternative sexual activities. I enjoy submissive women. Oh, it's great if she's intelligent, a great life partner, if she's a capable women or a hard working professional. But she should enjoy the idea of obeying her man, of letting him take charge and make decisions. It should make her happy to make him happy. This sort of girl is often frustrated by not knowing what to do to make people happy. It's much easier if she is just told, and then she happily tries to please people. I enjoy women tied up (Bondage). I think this is very sexy. The purpose is not to hurt the woman; many women love it, and it can be quite gentle. It's just a way to add variety and make sexual activities more exciting. I enjoy many other kinks as well. Hypnosis, tickling, role play--if you are interested we can discuss a variety of kinks. But the right sort of girl gets excited at the thought of her man deciding where to take her on a date and what she should wear. Or for him to grab her, press her against the wall and kiss her passionately. Or for him to tie her to the bed and lay a trail of kisses up and down her body. Or for him to grab her, put her over his shoulder, slap her bottom and tell her that she belongs to him. I prefer a girl who is bisexual and polyamorous. That is, a girl open to the idea of kissing or playing with another girl, or us both together playing with another girl. Again, you don't have to be an expert, or even be certain that you like it. You just need to be open to the idea of discussing or exploring it to better understand if it's for you or not. There you have it. Now you know far more about me than most people do! Thank you for reading. I appreciate your attention to detail. I look forward to getting to know you better and to help you better understand me. If you've read this and are intrigued, please help me make sure that I do not miss your message, that you stand out from others so I am sure to notice you and talk to you first. Send me a message with the subject line "Please tell me more, Sir?". Tell me more about yourself. It doesn't have to be as long as this--but help me get to know you as a person, to understand what makes you the special angel that you are. :)

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Grant is from United States

Grant (60)

Looking for a Good Heart North Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 52 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I am a quiet, family oriented, spiritual man. I am an Uncommon Man, especially for an American man. I am quiet yet deep, a warrior and a spiritual person wrapped up together. I have worked hard my life, I have raised three children as a single father, have been married and divorced a few times, encountered obstacles in life and have made it over every one. But I have not yet found a good woman that wants to be loved and appreciated as my wife and is willing to be a good partner without drama, drugs, or laziness. I have been a good husband and family man and provider. So now I look here and perhaps I can find a good Heart to share life with me. I've always wanted a good woman to be my wife who would be a good partner in the marriage and who would work hard like me and help contribute to our income and early retirement so we can spend our lives with family and traveling and enjoying life. I am a senior software developer and architect. I am developing specialized business intelligence and spiritual training DVDs as well as some software and writing a couple of books. I have not yet found a good woman out there that was interested in me and a career in computers and a family business too. My plan was to work hard so I could retire early. I have wanted a wife who would help with this as well as being loving, stable, dedicated, intelligent, sensual, and who viewed marriage as a partnership where we both work together to build a good life and a good family. I haven't found such a woman. I have tried with some women but they didn't want to work. They just wanted me to do all the work while they worked at not being good partners or a good wife.

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BRYAN is from United States

BRYAN (45)

B MAN West Palm Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 37 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I MOVED HERE TO FLORIDA THREE YEARS AGO FORM NORTH CAROLINA I LIKE THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE GOING TO THE BEACH HANGING OUT WITH MY FRIENDS WORKING ON MY CARS AND SOMETIMES STAYING HOME AND JUST WATCH A GOOD SCARY MOVIE WITH SPECIAL SOMEONE

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Tony is from United States

Tony (51)

Are you who i'm looking for? Key West, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I'm a very postive person. I think good things cane come from bad. I'm looking for someone that will make me happy! I have very blue eyes. I have a big heart. I have been hurt a few times and do not wish to go through that again. Contact me if y

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Gene is from United States

Gene (58)

Friends First... Ridgecrest, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 44 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

"Leaders don't measure their success on achievements or wealth, but on how in the face of lost or adversity, they exceed their own expectations and are considered great". I wrote these words because they reflect my life". Success should only be measured, by the individual and not by society and I believe each one of us has a purpose in life. A purpose to exceed our own individual expectation and to appreciate what God has given us. And to me that's life. Now with everything is said and done I guess I should tell you a little more about myself. First of all, I'm a easy going guy who enjoy going to dinner, movies, shows, night clubs (Jazz, R&B, & Strip Club) nude beaches, and travel.

Samir is from United States

Samir (70)

ARE YOU READY Schaumburg, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Are you ready to get commited in a long relation could end in marriage ,are you understanding and forgiven .are you willing to love without condition and be loved the same way,are you spiritual and dont care about material thing . I am all of the

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malucci is from United States

malucci (57)

love is something you live for. Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

A Godly man seeking.that God fearing woman for marriage

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rajih is from United States

rajih (59)

Honest Muslim Parma, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Hard working loving your best friend devoted Muslim

Alex is from United States

Alex (40)

Adventurous soul.... San Francisco, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 49 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I love music, movies, food and travel.

Kader is from United States

Kader (46)

Nice , a good companion , Funny Scottsdale, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

Nice and Kind , funny

kelvis is from United States

kelvis (43)

What a wonderful world!! Miami Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 36 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I live in a beautiful town on the Adriatic Sea, I work on research. I like going out, good food and fun...

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arek is from United States

arek (52)

Finally!!!!!!!!! Ready for marria... Weirton, West Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 35 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I live simple and free of drama life. I travel a lot because of my job. At the most I am trying to be aware of every moment of this life. If you want to know more ask me.

david is from United States

david (47)

looking for love Athens, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 40 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

i am a person who like to have fun .I also like spending time with family and friends.I also like to play sports.

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Rick is from United States

Rick (57)

Hello there...care to be friends? Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 30 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

I am looking for a friend first. Love will come if things are right..

mike  is from United States

mike (52)

just trying this Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 28 for Friendship
Body style: Full Figured

just a normal guy looking for a normal girl im employed have kids all grown up hmmm what else im 42 friendly easy to get a long with laid back but like to stay active swimming in ocean is favorite thing to do

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