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Chris is from United States

Chris (53)

ALL THE WAY Delano, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50 for Friendship

I don't Skype or Viber or any or any of that online stuff so don't ask I I will ask you for skype. To many scams on this site.  I am a retired state of California law enforcement officer. I enjoy outdoor activities. I like to cook and travel. I like computer and aviation flying. I'm looking for a sweet and nice Filipina/Asian little lady to marry. I'm planning on moving to the Harlem N.Y very soon. And I'm tired of people asking a total stranger to wire them money. Who does that? If you can't take care of yourself, then, we have nothing to talk about. Sorry. I'm tired of gold-diggers and scam artists. You must have more than one photo, or I'll bet that you're a fake profile and won't respond to you.


Jodi is from United States

Jodi (40)

hi Manteca, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 56 for Friendship

Average body structure, and easy going in nature, I am really just looking for friends first and trust God and nature to do their part from there . Love to read textbooks, love to dance, love good wine and intelligent conversation and I love serving


Irwin is from United States

Irwin (48)

Looking for the love of my life a... Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 43 for Friendship

I am a simple person sincere, educated, with many projects in the life ,i like sport, I like to read, learn more each day, i like people faithful , fun , kind respectful, hate the liar, hypocritical , the physical is not important , but if it's very important to have a good heart and sincere :)


Deondre is from United States

Deondre (41)

Really Nice Guy Baton Rouge, Louisiana, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 32 for Friendship

I am a very laid back guy that like to have fun and laugh really humorous. I'm understanding and a good listener some times if not distracted. I like to travel, the outdoors, the water and like trying new things very adventurous. I travel with my work a lot and like my job.


San is from United States

San (63)

Ilocano/Euro mix desires wife and... Lodi, California, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 45 for Friendship

I'm Illocano and white and live in Northern California. I live alone and lead a GOD fearing liffestyle. My personality is friendly, very humble, honest and I find it very easy to smile and laugh. I am a very hard worker, goal oriented, and devoted to friends and family. I am healthy in both mind and body, and I try my best to lead a good life. My life is lonely however and I wish to have a family and experience the joy of being a good father and a loving husband. Filipinas are special women who love their men beyond all others and I understand, respect, and honor that.

Steven is from United States

Steven (50)

White guy looking for nice girl Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 45 for Friendship

Hi and my named is Steven and I am a single white American male living here in Dallas Texas. I have a full time job so I am not looking for someone to take care of me because I can that myself. My mother wanted her kids to learn how to cook, clean a home and to know how to wash and iron their clothes. So you can see that I am a man who is not looking for a woman to be his maid but looking for a woman to be my partner in life. Know every day I try to be a gentleman that my mother wanted me to be. When you get to know me better, you will see that I am good man with a kind heart and giving soul.

Richard is from United States

Richard (33)

Chill it out Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35 for Friendship

I'm from the U.S. but I vacation all over for months at a time. I am currently traveling and exploring the world. In my travels, I have found that so many foreign women seem to make better wives and mothers with their families more in mind, rather than what I'm accustomed to in the U.S. Right now I want a companion to travel with and enjoy life. I eventually want to marry and have at least 4 children.


Jun Hong is from United States

Jun Hong (38)

Searching for a Serious Relations... Columbus, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 28 for Friendship

Hi, my name is Jun!! I'm from the United States. I'm a Taiwanese American. Being in America, it is hard to find someone special that matches your wishes. I don't really ask much as long as the girl is pleasant, friendly, and trusting. I am generally friendly and fun to be around. For people who don't me, I might look very cold and arrogant. I have a more introverted, shy personality so people assume me before they really know me. I'm actually very friendly and many people seen me go out of my way to help friends and strangers alike. Hope you see me from my heart and not from my appearance.

Chad is from United States

Chad (34)

Please read my profile carefully. San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 27 for Friendship

Please read my profile carefully. I'm providing a lot of detail so we can more easily understand how compatible we are. Short version: seeking a sweet, submissive, smart, sexy spouse. Long version: I am here to find a wife. I'd love to make new friends as well--feel free to write me--but the main reason I'm here is to find that one woman I can spend the rest of my life with. I am cautious. I want to get to know the right person very well before getting married. It could take months or even a year or more for me to be ready, to have the money and vacation days, to fly around to the other side of the world to meet you. Be patient. Let's get to know each other thoroughly through chat, emails, video and voice calls so we know we are right for each other. I want to have children and to raise them well. I want to marry the right woman, a woman who will be a good wife and a good mate. I am intelligent. I was accepted into Mensa, the high IQ society. I am not a rocket scientist, but I enjoy intelligent conversation, and I want intelligent children. My wife needs to be of above average intelligence. She should have a medium or dark skin tone, to help balance out my fair-skinned genes. I am agnostic. I was raised as a conservative Christian, but have come to believe that it is impossible to say what religion, if any, is correct. I try to be open minded. An agnostic woman would be best, or Christian. Other religions may be acceptable as long as she is not very religious. She must be kind, sweet, tender-hearted. There is no sexier trait a woman can have than a loving heart. She should be a good communicator. I do not mean that she has to be completely fluent in English, although that is nice. I mean that she should be patient, open, a good listener. She should be easy to talk to. We should be able to talk about anything or everything and to work out problems by discussing them frankly with each other. She must be absolutely honest, even when she thinks it is not what I want to hear. Of course she should be polite--there's no need to deliberately say hurtful things--but honesty and integrity are vital. I can't accept a woman who lies, tricks or deceives. In that vein, I know there are a lot of fakes and scammers online. I will NOT send you money. Talk to me if you are looking for a relationship, not cash. I am physically affectionate. I like to hold the girl, to cuddle her, kiss her, play with her hair. You should enjoy such affection. I prefer to do the touching, not be the one being touched. I like many things: girls with long hair, girls in high heels. Girls with sweet voices that are pleasant to listen to when she talks or sings. Girls that like to cook. What about me? Let's see. My Myers-Briggs personality type is ENTJ. My top 5 Strengthsfinder results are Ideation, Input, Futuristic, Individualization, Analytical. I have a quirky sense of humor. I tend to have big dreams. I like to analyze things or make detailed plans. I enjoy being in charge. I want to change the world. I have good traits and bad traits. I am intelligent, tall and--I like to think--in overall good health. I am a software engineer, which is good work. I try to be intelligent, thoughtful, ambitious. I own my own house. I am a confident leader and public speaker. Many women think my deep voice is sexy. I am committed to saving my virginity for marriage. I am creative and analytical. I am affectionate. I like to think I am more emotionally mature than many people, but I'm far from perfect. I believe in open, honest communication. I like to think I am gentle, kind and patient with women. I do not commit crimes. I do not do drugs. I do not smoke. I do not drink. I do not swear. I like cats. I am second degree black belt in the martial art of Tae Kwan Do. I believe that a relationship takes work. That a relationship is a commitment for man and woman to work hard at loving each other. Nothing is ever perfect and there are always obstacles. But if we work together, we can have a love that lasts a lifetime. I have many faults as well. I am pale-skinned and freckled, so pale it is impossible for me to tan. Many consider that unattractive. I am young, but already getting some gray hairs. I am quite nearsighted, and need my glasses to do just about anything. I am overweight, but I have made significant changes in my lifestyle to eat and drink better and exercise more, so I expect to get fitter soon. I have made a number of mistakes in my life. My financial situation is not as great as it should be, although I have been improving it substantially in 2015 and expect to do even better in 2016. I'm not a fan of dogs. I don't always get things done as soon as I would like. I am not very close to my family, although I do talk to and see them occasionally. Sometimes I eat unhealthy foods. I find it difficult to relate to most Americans. I can be shy and introverted, often preferring to be alone. Many women do not find my looks or personality attractive. I can have difficulties managing my time for maximum productivity. I think about sexual matters a lot and discuss them too much for the taste of some women. I share these things to avoid surprises, to help you better know if you would enjoy being with me. My goals in life? I will continue to work as a software engineer. I will work off my credit card debt and save up money. I will work on my business goals. I have many business plans. Right now, I want to work on a website to teach people public speaking skills and to make that profitable enough that I can leave my day job and devote more time to business. Then I will work on more businesses. I want to marry and have kids once I am in a good financial position. I want to move somewhere--I don't know where, I need to figure out where in the US I most want to live--and build my dream house and have children and profitable businesses there. You might wonder: why do I want to look overseas for a wife? It's not just because I've had poor luck with American women. America's immigration laws are overly strict. It is hard to get into the US. The best way is to marry an American. More foreign women in the US means more cultural diversity, more genetic diversity. It means Americans will better understand the world around them. For women from poor countries, it is a way to live in a richer country and to raise children in a richer place. Why do I want to marry an Asian girl? Because I think they are the most beautiful in the world. 3 But of course, if I find the perfect woman for me, race is not as important. What would our life be like together? There are many possibilities. Perhaps we would... - cuddle on the couch and watch a movie - cook dinner together, a new healthy recipe - try a new sport together - play a board game together, like Risk or something less common - go to professional meetings where I would give speeches - discuss business ideas together - set aside time to spend one on one with each other, even after having children, and just work on us - work in the same room on our own projects on our own computers - practice self-defense - read aloud for each other - take a walk in the woods - discuss ideas from a thought-provoking book with each other - have many kinky adventures! I've mentioned sexual matters a few times now. That requires explanation. I want a nice girl. I want a girl that doesn't smoke or drink or swear. A girl that is kind and thoughtful. A girl that would be a great wife and a great mother. A girl I could proudly introduce to my family. ...but... She also needs to be sexually adventurous. kinky. submissive. It's hard to find a girl that is both! Now, please don't be scared. Perhaps you don't know much about sex. That's fine. Many American women, even those that have sex regularly, have much to learn and believe in too many myths and misconceptions. And we don't have to discuss sex all the time. But it is important to know that we are compatible and could be happy together. And remember, I am saving my virginity for marriage. I do sexual activities, but will not do the actual act of intercourse until then. Another disclaimer. You don't have to love all these things. You don't have to be experienced in all these things. All I ask is that you are open minded. Perhaps you are curious. Perhaps you are willing to try anything once. Perhaps you just say "I don't know if I like it or not--let's explore this more and see what happens." That's fine. You just need to be willing to consider it. I am into BDSM. If you've read or watched 50 Shades of Gray, that's one type of a BDSM relationship. BDSM stands for Bondage, Dominance/submission, Sado-Masochism. It's a catch-all term for many kinks, many alternative sexual activities. I enjoy submissive women. Oh, it's great if she's intelligent, a great life partner, if she's a capable women or a hard working professional. But she should enjoy the idea of obeying her man, of letting him take charge and make decisions. It should make her happy to make him happy. This sort of girl is often frustrated by not knowing what to do to make people happy. It's much easier if she is just told, and then she happily tries to please people. I enjoy women tied up (Bondage). I think this is very sexy. The purpose is not to hurt the woman; many women love it, and it can be quite gentle. It's just a way to add variety and make sexual activities more exciting. I enjoy many other kinks as well. Hypnosis, tickling, role play--if you are interested we can discuss a variety of kinks. But the right sort of girl gets excited at the thought of her man deciding where to take her on a date and what she should wear. Or for him to grab her, press her against the wall and kiss her passionately. Or for him to tie her to the bed and lay a trail of kisses up and down her body. Or for him to grab her, put her over his shoulder, slap her bottom and tell her that she belongs to him. I prefer a girl who is bisexual and polyamorous. That is, a girl open to the idea of kissing or playing with another girl, or us both together playing with another girl. Again, you don't have to be an expert, or even be certain that you like it. You just need to be open to the idea of discussing or exploring it to better understand if it's for you or not. There you have it. Now you know far more about me than most people do! Thank you for reading. I appreciate your attention to detail. I look forward to getting to know you better and to help you better understand me. If you've read this and are intrigued, please help me make sure that I do not miss your message, that you stand out from others so I am sure to notice you and talk to you first. Send me a message with the subject line "Please tell me more, Sir?". Tell me more about yourself. It doesn't have to be as long as this--but help me get to know you as a person, to understand what makes you the special angel that you are. :)


Rob is from United States

Rob (45)

I see you and yes I am listening New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 32 for Friendship

I like to travel meet new people, be happy, and have a good life. I am waiting to find my special someone. To be with me, have a family, and make each other happy. I am looking for someone to be with me for the rest of my life, - to be my best friend for life...


Sanders is from United States

Sanders (40)

hello ^_^ i would like to talk Milpitas, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30 for Friendship

I've always been fascinated with Asian culture so once i traveled to Hong kong i really fell in love with it. Now I'm trying to explore other Asian cultures and maybe meet that special someone. I am honest and laid back and enjoy, reading, writing, c


phillip is from United States

phillip (57)

Latin man of the usa Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 60 for Friendship

I'm a man that is looking for for a friend that can become long lasting. I like getting out to movies, staying fit by running, working out , going to nice restaurants trvaling, camping the beach and much more. I'm a down to earth guy and is a man that is open to my women.


John is from United States

John (47)

Looking for a good woman McKinney, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 38 for Friendship

I am a responsible easy going guy who values honesty and loyalty. In search of the woman of my dreams, soul-mate, the one, I know that you are out there and I will find you, unless you find me first :) The woman I am looking for has good character, morals and values, a passionate woman who will stand up for what is right. Must be well balanced, with your life in order, (responsible) and sees the good all-around and who strives to be positive. A lifelong learner who knows that they are not perfect, but works on being the best person that they can be. Also: Kind, loving and sweet :) Some of the things we will do together when we find each other: Holding each other on the couch for hours on a rainy day Holding hands watching a beautiful sunset together Surprising each other with thoughtful gifts Treating each other to surprise dates Sweet goodnight texts Cooking for each other Talking Discovering new places together Vacations! Help each other figure things out Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight Write love notes to each other Sit in front of a roaring fire and passionately kiss The list goes on and on, you can experience them in real life when we are together………….


John is from United States

John (55)

In search of love Yucaipa, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50 for Friendship

Hello, my name is John, and thank you for visiting my profile. I am an open, honest and easy going guy with a great sense of humor. I love the outdoors such as camping, hiking, biking and swimming.I'm pretty handy as well and able to fix most anything. I have suffered a fail marrige, and have children from that marriage. I live in the city of Yucaipa located in sunny Southern California here in the US. Here I work as a Superintendent of Public Works for a local water agency.


Grant is from United States

Grant (60)

Looking for a Good Heart North Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 52 for Friendship

I am a quiet, family oriented, spiritual man. I am an Uncommon Man, especially for an American man. I am quiet yet deep, a warrior and a spiritual person wrapped up together. I have worked hard my life, I have raised three children as a single father, have been married and divorced a few times, encountered obstacles in life and have made it over every one. But I have not yet found a good woman that wants to be loved and appreciated as my wife and is willing to be a good partner without drama, drugs, or laziness. I have been a good husband and family man and provider. So now I look here and perhaps I can find a good Heart to share life with me. I've always wanted a good woman to be my wife who would be a good partner in the marriage and who would work hard like me and help contribute to our income and early retirement so we can spend our lives with family and traveling and enjoying life. I am a senior software developer and architect. I am developing specialized business intelligence and spiritual training DVDs as well as some software and writing a couple of books. I have not yet found a good woman out there that was interested in me and a career in computers and a family business too. My plan was to work hard so I could retire early. I have wanted a wife who would help with this as well as being loving, stable, dedicated, intelligent, sensual, and who viewed marriage as a partnership where we both work together to build a good life and a good family. I haven't found such a woman. I have tried with some women but they didn't want to work. They just wanted me to do all the work while they worked at not being good partners or a good wife.

Pete is from United States

Pete (64)

Back to the future Lafayette, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50 for Friendship

Hi, I am average in just about all physical aspects. My work has taken me around the world and now I wish to stay in one place and do some intimate exploration of this part of the world. I love being outside and have little use for the "bar scene". I enjoy fishing, camping and trips that bring me places I never expected.


Shaheen is from United States

Shaheen (53)

Nice man Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 44 for Friendship

I am 49. Have been recently divorced. Like to play badminton. Like to listen music and like to travel. I am an us Citizen was born in Bangladesh. Very out going, full of passion. . I am looking for women who can accept my life. Looking for the right woman to give all for the rest all my life.


eddy is from United States

eddy (59)

VERY WARM ENGAGING,SOCIAL,PLEASAN... Arlington, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 60 for Friendship


bertrand  is from United States

bertrand (72)

blond hair bleu eyes 5.9 inch 200... Atlantic City, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 54 for Friendship

easy going good sense humor 5.9 200 pound blond hair blue eyes good shape I like fishing boating ride motorcycle travel. quiet evening at home. walking riding bicycle .I am physical fit good health, I love to cuddle , I am a happy loving person a

dan is from United States

dan (63)

looking for someone to share my l... Valdosta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: 18 - 54 for Friendship

i am a white male 62 yrs 5 ft 9 in 240 lbs i love football , fishing and i could live on fish , some times i like to hunt just to be in the woods around nature fresh air the trees birds . i am open minded and would love to learn about your country and life style .

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