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64 Mesa, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 29 - 46
First I must tell you that I have had a vasectomy in 1992 and it cannot be reversed. If you are wanting to have children, than I am not the right man for you. I am honest and forthright and your happiness is of most importance. I am at [ heelan at rocket mail . com ]. I understand that for most women motherhood is the most gratifying gift God can give. I do hope to hear from you, but if I do not I understand and wish you all the best. I am widowed after 28 years of marriage. I loved my wife with all my heart and took care of her for many years during her illness. She died October 3, 2007. I have never cheated or was abusive, I believe in honoring my wedding vows always, which was easy for me as cheating is NOT in my nature. It is now time to start living again. First off, more than anything, I am told I listen well. I do not try to solve problems or offer advice, but simply listen (unless asked). I always listen no matter what the subject is - I will give time and support. I believe that is just one way to show my partner that I love her. It is the little things you do for her that will let her know she is truly loved. Surprise her with something small – bring home take-out food without being asked. A kiss when they least expect it. Flowers for no reason. Hold her hand in public, and in private. Little surprises like that can mean much more than words. Also, I am here to pamper and care for you. I will light a candle every once in a while, even when the power does not go out. When you wake up at 3 A.M. filled with worry, I will rub your back, hold your hand and says things will look better in the light of day. Then I will not fall asleep until you do. I will tell you I love you. While actions may speak louder than words, words hold their own special power. This and more is what I have to offer. - from there everything just gets better I love to be romantic. You marry for love or at least you should. I believe the most important factor is being a good lover. But being an exceptional lover starts with communication, which does not necessarily have to be verbal, than mastering the exquisite pleasure of touch, discovering each other in the process. I have learned if I make my mate happy --My life will be happy - It does go both ways - I have also learned to adjust and conform - and be patient - many things come your way with the proper timing or approach. As far as activities and hobbies, I LOVE FAMILY I do have 3 children, Megan - born 1986, Blake - born 1989 and Rachel - born 1991. They will not need or demand time from you, only kindness. I can offer you a wonderful home. My hobbies are – first is my family – I love family activities, going out for dinner, visiting parks and nature centers, and attending movies and plays. Second, I enjoy sports, both playing and watching. I also like to go ATVing. My most favorite hobby is creation of romantic moments for the woman I love.
53 Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
*Be in Bali on the 17th of May- June 1st- so excited!!* I will be in Bali for the mentioned dates- if you live in Bali or live in another area and are able (financially) to travel to Bali on your own, I am interested. If you do have to make arrangements to travel to Bali and you are there to see me, I am very willing to reimburse your expense when you get to Bali... I will NOT be willing to send any money to you in advance- you are not dealing with a horny 20 year old that will believe anything that he reads on a website... everyone that is serious on this site are looking for a solid relationship, but be realistic about marriage... you don't meet someone and 10 minutes later say "I want to marry this person!" It is ok to have those long-term expectations, but be realistic- all relationships that last take a certain amount of time to build a good base foundation- agree? I am looking to meet someone to hang out with and have a good time... it needs to be rewarding to both parties. I am hopeful to meet someone, hang out and get to know you and then when I leave Indonesia at the end of my trip, I want you to be on my mind and I want to be counting the days before I get to see you again... I'm serious, but not everyone on here seems to be... if you give me contact information, I am going to contact you- that is the idea I would think. Specifically, I am looking for someone around 24-35 years old, but there are always exceptions. I like to go out and have a good time while I am on vacation... In USA, it is called socializing and it is what we do... I do not party while I am here, but someone looking a person that does not drink would be disappointed with me while I am on vacation... I am not a drunk, alcoholic, a woman abuser nor a mean person- sometimes people unjustly associate those character traits with people that drink... I understand Indonesian culture and understand the persona of people who party all the time. If you are looking to date a BULE, especially an American, understand this is our culture and be accepting- ya? Ok, enough complaining for now... just be willing to come to Bali or live there- I don't want to waste my time talking with someone not able to meet me in person. I MIGHT go to Jakarta or Lombok while I am there, but not sure yet... just be serious if you show interest in me, favorite me or contact me- ok? I love to travel and go to Indonesia a few times a year. I like to go out and listen to live music and go to clubs while I am on vacation... when I am at home, I work very hard and have no time to do much other. I plan to retire in Indo in about 10 years. I have a great sense of humor and a big heart. I love children, but really don't want to have any to be honest. So if you have children, it is better than ok, it is great!! I will eventually sign up so I can contact someone if I am interested... I will add someone to my favorites list so I can contact them when I sign up. What are the chances you could meet me in Bali if we are interested in each other? Or travel with me to Gili? Have you been there before? Very beautiful and romantic destination... I am hoping to make a connection with someone, meet in person and pursue a serious relationship- please don't play me and don't ask for $$... Saya TiDaK BoDoh!! :) I eventually plan to retire in the next 10 years to Indonesia- I love the people and the culture. And Indonesian women are the most beautiful woman in the world!! I hope to find that special someone to share the rest of my life with, open some small business, make just enough money to get by and look forward to waking up next to the love of my life...



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