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Gavin
42 San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Education: PhD or Doctorate
I grew up in Northern New Jersey, 25 miles west of Manhattan. I am German, Irish, & Hungarian on my mother’s side and Polish & Italian on my father’s side. After, high school I spent my college years in Boston studying Business Management and after working for a telecommunications company and private equity firm I went on to attain my Law Degree (J.D.) in San Francisco. During Grad School I fell in love with California, but in order to preserve my option to return to the East Coast if I ever wanted or needed to (like take care of my elderly parents if it ever came to that) I went through the painful process of becoming a member of the NY, NJ, & CA Bars. That was challenging, but my childhood had already given me a thick skin. My older brother was a dark sadistic stand-up comic who made me the ass of more jokes than I care to remember. Like all fraternities, this hazing ritual had an upside. I gained a quick wit and a proverbial granite chin. I learned to laugh at myself and not take the criticisms of others too seriously. Joey Gay, my brother’s best man, recalling his childhood once remarked: "In Brooklyn with a name like Joey Gay, you either do comedy or learn to box." Along the circuitous path of life, I have visited over 60 countries and have lived, studied, and worked in New York, Boston, San Francisco, & Los Angeles. I finally settled in San Diego and bought a house near Mission Bay Park. I have seen a fair cross section of the world and few places compare favorably to California. Clean eating and daily exercise is a nonnegotiable priority in my life. I have been lifting weights five days a week for years, and enjoy it, but I am a bit ashamed to admit it with so many other more interesting things to do here. I would rather be doing more: surfing Windansea Beach, hiking Torrey Pines, Cycling Mission Bay Park, Snorkeling La Jolla Cove, Snowboarding Big Bear, Gardening, Meditating at Swami’s, Playing Tennis, or Tasting Wine in Temecula. Life is better off the hamster wheel. I love City Life, and take every opportunity to explore every corner of San Diego and the surrounding area. In particular, I love wine and dining out.
Carl
50 Eden Prairie, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Education: PhD or Doctorate
DISCLAIMER: If you are superficial and don't like to read click past this profile and go look at one that says I will fill this in later or Ask Me.. This profile may be too direct and will definitely not be for everyone and it maybe too much, but it is, what it is. It's me warts and all, but it will be funny and unlike any other male profile on here. ONE MORE THING: I feel the need to address this because I get questions about religion. I chose not to speak upon that because it's a very divisive subject. I respect whatever anyone does to better themselves spiritually if it's positive and I don't use the term Christianity because that's been corrupted by people who don't act very Christian at all with others who disagree with their point of view. So if that is a issue keep it moving. I figured I would do what a a lot of men don't in their profiles and express myself. First, of all I don't care if you are white, black, red, green or yellow if you are a fun, positive person and we could possibly vibe around something let's talk?? Now moving on.. Let's have some fun with this profile shall we?? I would hate to bore you by telling you how wonderful I am by attaching to my name a bunch of flattering adjectives. I am sure that you have already found this about two hundred times in all the other profiles. I am not perfect and I don't want to be.. However with that said I do have a Masters, and soon a PhD, a library card, and enough high-brow conversation about any topic you can possibly imagine to be more interesting than 95% of the men on this site.. LOL You get asked why the internet to meet someone or why are you single? The answer is simple I don't want to do the bar/club thing anymore.. I had my time to do that and it's time to let the youngsters have their turn. It would be great just to meet someone without the pretentiousness of being in the bar/club. Now I am very honest with myself as a man and I KNOW I have ****ed up (excuse the language) some great relationships because of my inability to let someone in, but I have learned as I have gotten older and grown from the experiences. I am sure we are all searching for something that is perfect for us. Hell, I may have passed that person by, or completely F'd it up in a previous situation by not being open or ready for it who knows, but that is the great thing about life, every day you HAVE is another opportunity to get it right. About You: Lets see if this part is even read so I don't get asked, So what are you looking for?? LOL If you want to know EXACTLY what I am looking for in that REAL woman. You are curious about the world around you. You can take a joke and are not easily offended. You believe that sarcasm is a spice of life. You can spell, and are generally happy. The rest is negotiable. LOL I would like to have the kind of woman I can share things with and possibly build something special from there. That spark if you know what I am saying that motivates you to be the best you can be, that you look forward to coming home to everyday, the kind of woman that will keep me challenged and emotionally stimulated who is personable, self-secure, fun, intelligent, open-minded, compassionate, supportive, loyal, of course attractive, sexy, confident, aggressive, one who is able to teach me new things, speak her mind, tell me what she wants and express herself openly to me about her desires and feelings. Who is more importantly non-judgemental and open in her ethnicity preference.. I am easy going willing and able to try new things and have lots of diverse interests cooking, traveling, relaxing, music, reading, theater, movies, art, sports, dining out chilling at home and road trips. If you are interested in one helluva guy that person would be me flaws and all, because I am working to be an even better man and I like where I am headed. Have there been some growing pains there sure have and I am sure you have had them too, I needed to have mine.. Good Luck To Everyone..
Al
57 DeKalb, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 31
Education: PhD or Doctorate
God is first in my life. My wife will be second. If we both are interested in each other, I will join this site so we can connect. So send me an interest if you want to connect and you match what I'm looking for. I have 2 sons who are grown up already and don't live with me any more. You won't have "competition" from a former family. I grew up on a farm. I've lived in a big city, but I prefer to live in the country (province). I work as a trainer for a large international company. I also volunteer to help teach English as a second language. Any blessings I have from God are a stewardship that He has given to me for the purpose of blessing others and showing them the love of God and telling them how they can have eternal life. I believe a man should love his wife as Christ loves the church. Jesus Christ lived His life dedicated to the church, and He even died for us. Here's what God's Word has to say about it (Ephesians 5:25-33): "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— for we are members of his body. 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.' This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself..."

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