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Steve
57 Charlotte, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 44
Hair color: Blonde
What can I say besides I am an outgoing guy who likes to have fun travel and meet new people. I recently realized that I need to have more fun in my life and not worry about things as much. I retired from an airline and get to travel for free, so I try to go as often as I can. Love riding my Harley Davidson motorcycle to the mountains or beach. Life can be really trying sometimes for us all, especially when things may not be going as well for us as expected. We think that, at a certain age.....we should have A, B, & C and in that order, but, in reality, we shouldn't have the expectations that society drills into our minds at such an early age. I have grown to realize that life is so unpredictable, But THAT is what makes it great, well.....hard sometimes and very trying, but the fact that we are challenged in so many ways.....makes us grow. Makes us who we are. But, what makes our lives full? Experience....tho good and bad....makes us appreciate the REAL things around us. So many fake people and things in life....that leave us maybe successful financially, but all in all......Success is HAPPINESS. Even if I only have 1 REAL friend or thing in my life....that 1 thing can make our life memorable and real. Maybe some of you will understand this, and most won't, but I just want to say....the few things that I love doing in life, the more I can give to others without being so selfish I feel sorry for myself, the more beauty I see in all the little things around me.......Make it mean something....Make life what it is truly meant to be.....beautiful, meaningful, fulfilling.
John
45 Newport, Rhode Island, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 18
Hair color: Blonde
Chris
44 Honolulu, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 22 - 35
Hair color: Blonde
►►►Please make sure to click 'read more' to see everything I've written in this section▼▼▼ Hello. (-: My name is Chris, and I live permanently in Hawaii, USA. I am both a U.S. citizen and a Norwegian citizen. I grew up in Scandinavia (Norway), North-West Europe, but I became a U.S. citizen several years ago. I am open to meeting a woman of any ethnicity/nationality - what is important to me is that you are honest, intelligent, open to learning - open to new ideas, enjoy and appreciate nature, and serious about meeting a kind and interesting person. I am, in many ways, very different from the typical Western person - my mind and my heart are often more at home with Eastern ways of thinking, and living in Hawaii - near the center of the Pacific Ocean - seems to suit me very well. I love animals, especially German Shepherd dogs; I do not currently have one. Would be nice to meet a person who cares not only about humans, but all sentient beings in general given that we are one of countless animal species, not a special being that stands above and apart from the rest of nature. I should point out that I do not follow any religion. I see Buddhism as a philosophy, a set of very helpful methods and ideas, and out of all the well-known systems of thought, I feel most at home with Buddhist teachings. I believe I can accurately be described as highly spiritual - I feel a deep connection with and appreciation of nature and the Universe. I can walk in the mountains, stand in the forest, or sit at the edge of the ocean and get tears in my eyes just looking at the beauty of nature and the considering the mystery of existence. I take very good care of my health by eating well (most of the time, not all the time!), exercise, using several natural supplements (plant/fruit/vegetable extracts), and working on feeling content and at peace by doing meditation practice. Also, I am known for extensive use of logic and reason, and normally spot illogical thinking almost instantly. Related to that, it is appropriate to mention that I will never get upset when someone points out that I've made a mistake. If it appears that I was wrong, I will admit it as soon as I understand that I was mistaken. I like truth and clarity in situations where that is possible, and when I am uncertain of something or simply don't know, I make that clear as well. :-) I have lived in Hawaii 4 years, and I am quite certain I will live here for life, though I may eventually also get a small second home in New Zealand in order to spend a few months there from time to time (the three islands on this planet I love the most are Maui, Hawaii, and the South Island of New Zealand (least populated and largest of the main islands). Briefly, some of my interests: hiking in the the high mountain forests where the air is cool and fresh (I know more great hiking locations high up in the mountains than just about anyone on the islands of Maui and Hawaii), swimming, and reading (topics: astronomy/astrophysics - not astrology, physics, psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, history, and many more). I seriously want to learn kitesurfing in the future  I have degrees in finance, international business, computer science, and law (my 1 choice for major was astrophysics, but coming from Norway as an international student, I was restricted to whatever I could get funding for from the Norwegian state, and none of the sciences except computer science was on the list of majors approved for scholarships). For work, I privately manage money for myself, a few family members, and a few clients. I never get involved with more than a single woman at the same time, and have no interest in being with someone who may want to see other men at the same time. I am not the jealous type, however, and I trust the woman I am with unless she gives me good reason not to trust her. I have never cheated on anyone I've been with (even during the last three years of a marriage where things were not going well almost exclusively due to a lack of common interests), and I am quite sure no one I have been with have cheated on me. I am very loyal - no cheating, no seeing any other women. A life-long relationship with a woman who I fit extremely well together with is my dream, and I will - if I am confident I've met the right woman - agree to marriage if it important (or necessary due to citizenship/residency issues) for her to marry. I personally do not need a piece of paper saying I am married in order to be just as serious about the relationship (or as loyal and caring); if you ever 'steal' my heart, then you have it completely regardless of whether we get married. Look forward to hearing from interesting women who hopefully share at least some of my main interests. I have many good qualities that the right woman will appreciate very much. Hopefully you are in good shape and up for walking in the mountains and the forests from time to time. ;-) Chris P.S. An indication of my spiritual views via the words of Albert Einstein: "The most beautiful experience we can have is the mysterious. It is the fundamental emotion that stands at the cradle of true art and true science. Whoever does not know it and can no longer wonder, no longer marvel, is as good as dead, and his eyes are dimmed. It was the experience of mystery -- even if mixed with fear -- that engendered religion. A knowledge of the existence of something we cannot penetrate, our perceptions of the profoundest reason and the most radiant beauty, which only in their most primitive forms are accessible to our minds: it is this knowledge and this emotion that constitute true religiosity. In this sense, and only this sense, I am a deeply religious man... I am satisfied with the mystery of life's eternity and with a knowledge, a sense, of the marvelous structure of existence -- as well as the humble attempt to understand even a tiny portion of the Reason that manifests itself in nature." P.P.S. My general view on politics, also in the words of Albert Einstein: "My political ideal is democracy. Let every man be respected as an individual and no man idolized. It is an irony of fate that I myself have been the recipient of excessive admiration and reverence from my fellow-beings, through no fault, and no merit, of my own. The cause of this may well be the desire, unattainable for many, to understand the few ideas to which I have with my feeble powers attained through ceaseless struggle. I am quite aware that for any organization to reach its goals, one man must do the thinking and directing and generally bear the responsibility. But the led must not be coerced, they must be able to choose their leader. In my opinion, an autocratic system of coercion soon degenerates; force attracts men of low morality... The really valuable thing in the pageant of human life seems to me not the political state, but the creative, sentient individual, the personality; it alone creates the noble and the sublime, while the herd as such remains dull in thought and dull in feeling.
Coury
62 Murrieta, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 80
Hair color: Blonde
Show me your smile, your eyes, your heart, that is what impresses me. If you have no photo, I won't respond. If you send me a message here, I may respond. If you ask for my email/Skype/Yahoo ID, I won't provide if no photo. I prefer to understand/know you before I give that information to you. If there are children from previous relationships, I have no problem with that, because they are a part of you, therefore a part of me. I am one who enjoys the simpler things in life. I enjoy doing activities that enlighten my soul, heart, and physical self. I am a family oriented person which has high respect for family values. I am a devoted person to that special person in my life. I am one that will do anything for my partner in life. I believe that the eyes are the window to the soul, and they do not lie. I enjoy the dinners out, the walks on the beach, the social activities, watching the sunset and sometime the sunrise. I enjoy outdoor activities like golf, swimming, and Horseback Riding. I am an exultant person both in personal and Business. I am comfortable with myself, which allows me to be contented with others. I am an early to bed and early to rise person; but yet, when I am out with that special person, time just flies by, and sometime I miss the early to bed. I am a person that does not tolerate deception or untruths. I am a straight to the point person, and don't like being taken advantage of either emotional, or other. I don't like to play games when emotions are involved or any other type of game playing. I work hard every day. I enjoy nice clothes, and enjoy doing outside activities. I have reached beyond the security needs, money and such in my work and Business. I am a social person, that enjoys being around people, but I also enjoy seclusion. I am an extrovert, but can be an introvert at times. I adapt well to different situations, and personalities. I am pretty good at reading personalities and abilities. I am one that does not get angry with anyone, but one that maybe disappointed. I am a straight to point person, and I don't lie. I don't like people that lie. I like Honesty and high ethical standards.
joshua
37 Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Hair color: Blonde

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