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Michael  is from United States

Michael (61)

HANDSOME, KIND, CALM, VERY LOVING... Springfield, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35 for Penpal



Chris is from United States

Chris (55)

Honest and thoughtful man seeks a... Waukegan, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 50 for Penpal

I am an intelligent easy going simple guy. Down to earth man who is hard working and with a successfully career in information technology (IT). I have been divorced for over a year and have a 16 year old daughter. My life was centered around my family, but now with the divorce and my daughter driving I have allot of time on my hands and no one to spend it with. I never finished my 4 year degree, but I am professional and work at the top level of my field. I am well-traveled through Asia, Europe, an North America as part of my work. I am loyal, honest, and faithful one women man looking for a partner of good strong character. I have a good sense of humor with a hint of sarcasm, I am easy to talk to and very accepting and forgiving of defect in our personalities ( no one is perfect ). I can forgive my women of almost any misdeed if she is honest with me. I try hard not to judge, "live and let live" as they say. I am open minded and very liberal guy, raised in a good middle class home in California where both my parents worked. My mother a teacher and my father an engineer. I know how to treat and respect a women, even open a door from time to time; but most of all I know to listen to my women and make sure her voice is heard and I earn her respect and loyalty. A couple thing to note. First is I only speak English, if you cannot read and speak English please don’t contact me. I have tried to connect with people outside of America and found it very difficult. The Other thing is Kids, I have a 16 year old daughter and I take being a father very seriously. Because of my age and American culture I am too old to support a child through collage at my age. So I don’t want any more kids. Please don’t contact me if you want to have a family or your own. Sorry I am just too old to provide the financial support. Please do not send interest or message to me if you're not a match to my profile. Be honest and don’t waste each other’s time dreaming, be real. ;)


Gerald is from United States

Gerald (43)

Gentleman looking to have fun . Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 19 - 52 for Penpal

I am a gentleman who is responsible, honest, and likes to have fun. Respectful..I don't like women who you say hi or give them a compliment and they ignore you or get an attitude....PLEASE leave the attitude at home . I can be your Sunshine in the morning and your Moon at nite.


Marcus is from United States

Marcus (40)

honesty is the best policy Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 59 for Penpal

There is a lot to know about me. I've been an entrepreneur for several years. I'm honest loyal sincere caring and understanding. I don't go to bars or clubs but I do enjoy a drink over dinner with my love one. I love to BBQ and take walks on the beach. I'm a thinker so my mind is always on something. I use to be a member on this site but I prefer to see how serious you ladies are. Of you are a member it will help me believe that you are really serious about meeting the right one.

charles is from United States

charles (65)

life partner sought Des Plaines, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 48 - 57 for Penpal

I have varied interests, from appreciating the arts, to outdoor activities, bicycling to flyfishing to golf. My children are older teenagers. One in graduate school and another in his second year. My friends describe me as an "honest, sincere man".


Todd is from United States

Todd (43)

Looking for my Sun and Stars :) Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female for Penpal

I love to travel. I would like to find someone to explore the world with. Beauty and physical attraction will bring two people together, but communication and spontaneity will keep them in a relationship. If you have read this far you should write me a note :)


pat is from United States

pat (53)

Hello Champaign, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 44 for Penpal

I like to think I am well read an educated. I like a person who can tell a good story. I enjoy people watching. the things people do fascinate me. I like to read true stuff mostly.I really do not know what to put on these things. So if you want o know more jsut ask. I try to be gentile with everyone i encounter. I can fix anything, from cars to home projects. and Yes i read the directions.


Gentleman is from United States

Gentleman (53)

Lots of Love To Give Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 54 for Penpal

I am 53. I have lots of love to give. I am easy going and i have a simple life. I love all my children and my familiy and my cats and all animals. Ideally i am looking for someone who is open to a future of living in USA, but it is not a requirement. Let us be friends first and take a day at a time.

Barry is from United States

Barry (47)

White male interested in Asian be... Springfield, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 42 for Penpal

I am a kind and caring person who is not attractive, but a great heart. I am living the USA right now but would like to be with the woman I meant to be. Until then I would like to have friends and penpals. I hope that we get along. I don't have an upgrade in membership so I am looking. I am going to upgrade soon. I interested in meeting new people and get to know you. About the language part, my native tongue is English, but knows basic Japanese. The only problem I have is their grammar. Otherwise I would of master it by now. I thought I will clear that up since would sound like a lie when we talk. I also would like to point out that I have Facebook and Messenger if you are interested.


Anthony is from United States

Anthony (53)

Essence of Man Calumet, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 52 for Penpal

I can speak of who I am, but I'm partial to me, so you must discover who I am through your conversations and interactions, because anyone can paint a perfect picture of themselves, but the best way to see them is through your own perspective view. Also, it doesn't matter how perfect someone is on paper, because if the attraction/chemistry isn't there, it won't matter anyway.


keith is from United States

keith (37)

looking for romance, & intimacy Evanston, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 65 for Penpal

i am a male seeking a female for casual dating at the moment, nothing serious although someday i myself would like, or love to get married, but not anytime too soon regardless of how i myself am pretty much so still a family man, i am quite sensitive, but then yet outspoken, i don't hold my tongue much, but at the same time i try to think to be discreet, &/or polite, & furthermore as respectful as possible even when a topic of discussion can, or could possibly become, or be quite controversial, & whereas if at some given moment in time i myself may not agree with that being of another's line of thought, & in that being of the same sense of the word, but then nevertheless i would try to be tolerant, &/or civil, or democratic in trying to think to size up that being of another individual person's views, &/or opinions provided that it does not become that being of some kind of a rather heated debate being of which can, or could possibly turn into a senseless argument being of which from there can, or could possibly likewise turn into something rather physical being of a conflict of interest for both of the two parties involved, & therefore it can be said that that being of the person of i myself am quite liberal-minded although, or regardless of how at times it can, or could possibly seem as if i am contradicting myself, & i am a fairly great guy, or fella for anybody to possibly get along with provided that no one attempts to step upon my toes, or rub me the wrong way however said, ...

Jimmy  is from United States

Jimmy (50)

No games please Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 48 for Penpal

Please no games no photo no profile do not waste your time!!! I am a single father from Chicago I love to laugh and enjoy life I just need someone to share my life with. I am a excellent cook I am a drummer in a rock band but most of all I enjoy time with my kids


Jeffrey is from United States

Jeffrey (44)

I Need A Woman By My Side As A He... Aurora, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 23 - 39 for Penpal

I am pretty down to earth and laid back...but I do have a passion for the lost and to feed the hungry and clothe the naked and to see the gospel to as many of the lost that can be reached in these last days!!! I love children and would like to have a family and also would like to start orphanages around the world to take care of children that have been orphaned


Wil is from United States

Wil (48)

Artist, classical musician, forme... Evanston, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 42 for Penpal

Artist, classical musician, former Marine, martial artist and armchair philosopher


Nick is from United States

Nick (31)

Can you handle this muscled Asian... Aurora, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 33 for Penpal

I'm nice, easy-going, very out-going, goofy sense of humor, intelligent, artistic, creative, and talkative. Talk to me to find out more. 


TJ is from United States

TJ (55)

Just looking for a keeper Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 46 for Penpal

Single man, who likes to have fun, travel tennis etc. The rest is for you to find out


rick is from United States

rick (56)

adventure awaits Carbondale, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 46 for Penpal

tall blonde,blue eyes and traveling spirit


Darrick is from United States

Darrick (57)

seeking Miss Right Now Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 28 - 56 for Penpal

5'10" 185 lbs. African- American with hazel eyes

Dustin is from United States

Dustin (38)

Looking for love Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 28 for Penpal

Looking for love

David is from United States

David (69)

Just looking Chicago, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 55 for Penpal

I am a simple man. I am easy to please ,

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