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56 Cape Coral, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 53
Star sign: Aries
Ok.... first let me say, WOW!!!!!!...... Chinese women are absolutely beautiful and so very sweet and caring. Makes question the intelligence level of the local men, how can you be available? ha ha The most often value/characteristic mentioned in this site, especially by women, is honesty, and yet both genders' profile read as bad advertisements. I am going at this differently. First let me say, we are wanting the same thing, true love and special connection to another. I believe sustainable, life long love is part chemistry, shared values, and an unwavering commitment, which takes work. I am here for a couple of reasons as mentioned in the opening I find Asian women so extremely attractive, but more importantly, the ingrained Chinese Culture in regards to commitment, family importance and roles I find it to be like minded. My faith is a big part of who I am and provides people on the outside a glimpse of how my mind works. I also find that the word peaceful is used a lot here. In my time here on earth I have come to know there are three types of people, sheep, wolves and dogs, I am the dog, I believe my place on earth is to protect people it is why I do what I do. I really do try to make a difference in the world each and every day. I have been married, unfortunately it did not work out, although I very much love being married. I do have five children although two are grown and have moved out of the house, the first three I adopted. I love kids and if I could afford it I have bunches. If you have a child or children that is not a problem for me, with your permission I will treat and love them as my own. I am in no way perfect, I have my share of flaws and then some. Although I wish I was but I am not easy going, I am very passionate. I have a huge heart and I am a provider and protector by nature. I have been in Law Enforcement for almost 28 years , and I am currently a high ranking official within the police department, again I like protecting and helping people. I have a Master's degree and for the past nine years I have been an adjunct professor at the University. I do a lot of coaching, love sports. In chatting with some, the question comes up what do I want, I do not need perfection..... But what I do want, what I will not settle for less than a committed lover, partner and just as important best friend for the remainder of my life. that's it. I am trying to learn the differences in our cultures especially in regards to humor, so please be patient with me, my humor is dry and sometimes sarcastic. Anything else we can talk about.... If it works out and you do end up marry me, I am just being honest when I tell I do not like talking on the telephone,..... but I promise I will make up to you when I get home : )
51 Las Cruces, New Mexico, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 49
Star sign: Aries
Seriously, if you don't have anything in your profile then ask me for my email or to go to some other random site I'm just going to ignore you. If you can't talk to me here for a while then I'll assume you are a scammer. Here’s the deal, I’m a real man looking for a real woman. If there is any doubt in your mind now as to if you’re a real woman just stop now and move on. Please, please note; I am not interested in having more children. If this is a deal breaker I'm sorry but I am not the man for you. Me in a nutshell: 35 is my functional age, 49 is my chronological age. If my age is a problem for you then think of me as 35 with a WHOLE LOT of life experience. I don't even think of myself as 49, to me it still sounds pretty old. I know how active I am and I am MUCH closer to 35 than I am 49. I’m old school loyal, trustworthy, honest, romantic, kind and am very much a man of my word. In my world your handshake is an oath; at no point should I need an email to prove something was or was not said. I love to show affection, kissing at random, holding hands, just sitting on the couch could easily turn into a shoulder massage or foot rub. I know how to treat a lady and I know how to walk away from one who is not. If I don’t mean something I say it will be very obvious with funny sarcasm. Other than that I say what I mean and mean what I say, I don’t like wasting my breath on fluffy filler or misdirecting words. My real name is Tom Johnson, really. I put this in here as your test, if you call me John then I'll know you didn't read my profile. I possess a great sense of humor that can be dry or twisted and anything in between. I don’t take myself or life very seriously except when the need arises as I’d much rather spend my time enjoying the flow of life than fighting it. My private life is just that. It doesn’t go with me to work and I don’t discuss it without approval. I don’t like to work out or eat healthy but do it anyway to keep fit and remain healthy. I have my own views and believe in what I believe in. I like me the way I am, I'm not likely to change so don’t think I am a fixer-upper. I know who I am, what I am all about and am very comfortable in my own skin. It's also what I am looking for in a woman. You should be strong of mind, know who you are, what you want in life and be comfortable with yourself the way you are. I am extremely confident in myself and my abilities, never to the point of arrogance because I also know my limits. I am a 16 year veteran of both the Marines and the Air Force. It has molded me into who I have become but it is not who I am anymore. I have been successful in the civilian world for 7 years now. I love most animals, for some reason that I can’t explain they love me back. I’ve been told that animals can tell good from bad in humans so I guess that is supposed to say something positive about me. Not a sports guy. I know how to play them and understand the rules but don’t care enough to follow them. I will watch them and get excited at great plays but I don’t make them a priority in my life. I am an automotive guy. It doesn’t consume me but I can appreciate any vehicle for what it is, or was. Hiking, walking, beach time, dinners out, dinners in after we cooked them together, of course travel, star gazing because I live in the desert and it’s freaking awesome! I’m sure there is more so if you are interested then you should ask. I currently live in the desert but not planning on staying. It's been a nice break from living in a larger city but it's time to get back to civilization. By this time next year I could be in Dallas or Atlanta or anywhere else warm most of the year. TAKE NOTE: My latesest update: If you are a scamer, move on. Don't take this as a challange but no one has ever scammed me. No one ever will, I can see it comeing a mile away. Y'all are very obvious but sometimes I am bored and will string you along for a few weeks LOL!



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